侃侃《王贵与安娜》
来源:晋江文学城 作者:tully 2005年05月03日
看完了《王贵与安娜》,总结出一些小tips。
头一遍看的是它的文风,一个女孩子那么调侃的口气,那些个幽默的经验之谈和小感受,让我时时忍俊不禁。起初觉得六六要写父母辈的婚姻是为了和现代人的纸婚相对照,是正面教育!看了第二遍,觉得有点上当!安娜的结论是婚姻不是什么好东西, 谁要谁拿去。那个态度刚好印证了王朔电影里的一句话:我是抱着必败的心去的,成了那是锦上添花,败了那是意料之中,所以永远立于不败之地。不知道这算不算成功婚姻的必备心理建树。没有期望,就没有失望,没有失望,就知足常乐。
其次,孩子是婚姻的润滑剂。安娜和王贵分别有了第二春的时候,都不约而同地想到了孩子,才忍痛割舍新欢旧爱。子女是血亲,妻子, 丈夫毕竟是曾经不相干的陌生人, 是因为因缘际会而组合的维持生计共同体。所以,要使婚姻维持,紧要关头要有孩子做法宝。这样鉴于对自己骨肉的怜惜和使命感, 脱轨的心会不得不重回轨道。
安娜说把希望寄托在男人身上, 就好比把风筝系在鸟尾巴上那么失策。连王贵这样的男人都会有第二春,这样看来,一辈子爱很多人的是凡人,一辈子爱一个的才是情圣。当我们对男人们有了清醒地认识,就能在危机来临时,在战略上藐视男人,在战术上孤立男人,破釜沉舟,打破他们妻妾成群的幻想,让他们做出二选一的抉择。
其貌不扬的下里巴人王贵,和温文尔雅的涡轮司机是一个天上, 一个地下, 一个是理想,一个是现实。 安娜为什么会抛弃理想,选现实哪?安娜虽然小资,但是宿命,懂得安于现状,并在现有的环境调整,改善。那么我们可不可以说选理想的是勇者, 选现实的是智者呢??毕竟改变是一件冒风险的事,而有能力直面经营惨淡人生的,有大智慧。
王贵好在哪里?王贵的外在条件会遭所有小资女人的唾弃。但是, 王贵其实是败絮其外, 金玉其中的男人。品行端正,道德高尚,心胸宽广,是好父亲,还是妻奴。王贵包容了安娜常年的鄙视,嘲讽,分担了大部分的家务,养家糊口任劳任怨,如果说他粗线条, 不懂得格调,但是, 任何事情都有两面,他若是和安娜一样sensitive, 那要凭空多出好多猜疑,嫌隙,疙瘩。。。种种种种。也许,小资的男人还自恋,不会像王贵这样放低身段, 任你搓扁抡圆。所以,六六会发出感慨,她的小资爱人的希腊鼻,不沾春水的修长手指,。。。。。。都是她劳碌拼命维持出来的。选丈夫要选王贵。涡轮司机呢, 就知己好了!
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