恰逢其时地死去
2008年04月05日
网友婵娟跟我说她在花样年华嫁与夫君,却在草样年华被告知夫承新欢了,她说,我不心甘,我到底做错了什么?
我哈哈笑了,笑得她黛眉倒竖,直怨我不通人性。
我笑着告诉她,我就是通了人性,才笑。
科学已经证实了的,男人基因里的D4DR多巴胺受体基因比较强,这个基因就充当了喜新厌旧的角色。这是人的生物本能,你总不能违背人性违背自然吧!那些克己复礼,独善其身的,是在锻造圣贤,大多数人是克服不了生理缺陷的。我说几个情种故事给你听听:
汉武帝是个风流好色之徒,见一个爱一个,爱一个杀一个,被他爱不见得是好事,一般的不爱了也就落个抛弃,他是真杀。最终铭刻于他心的,没被他杀的李夫人,是自己病死的,这一病死,倒成了汉武帝的念想,多年之后还招魂梦里相见。
印度莫卧儿王朝的第五代国王沙·贾汉政绩倒不怎么突出,却干了件到现在都对印度有益的事情。他的爱妃泰姬先他而去,他因为思念,恪守诺言,造出了一座到现在还在收钱的泰姬陵,且自夫人去世后拒绝再娶,当然另一说是他也没来得及疗伤复原就给儿子幽闭了。
这最后一个算是野史,顺治当年也是放荡不羁,自从爱上了董鄂妃后痛改前非,一切情债砍去,一心专宠。不曾想董鄂妃命薄,未几年就撒手人寰,留下孤独的顺治一说是伤心毙命,一说是出家为僧。
这几个故事,给了咱女人什么启示?
要想博得千古传唱的荣幸,那得恰逢其时地死去,在你韶华光阴,新宠加身,未及相看两厌的时候,掐准日子可可巧地就一病呜呼两腿一瞪,留下的最是回味。我想以上那三个女人要是再活得长一点儿,故事的结局只怕要改写。等那D4DR又活跃的时候,再多看你一眼都生厌。
这还不是旷世奇古爱情的必要条件。那个为你守贞的男人,还须龙袍加身,抑或盖世英雄,他得在这世界上留得下值得笔墨书写的痕迹,你才能被人铭记。
你嫁的,是那样一个浓墨勾勒的伟岸男人吗?你确定自己为成就一段佳话,不迟不早有病有灾吗?还有,你有没有想过,更多的可能,你即使就那么识相地上演告别,结果白告了,人也就是一普通人儿,即使情比金坚,奈何藏在深山无人知,你也白牺牲了。
所以,对于男人的薄情,你没啥可抱怨或难过的,唯一的过错就是自己活得太长,过了情感的保质期。不过咱还是就做一普通人吧,宁可活成个老妖精,也不要为了一段不了情恰逢其时地死去。
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