女人的两种选择
Posted: 03-08-2007
看了周涛和宋丹丹的再婚故事,我感慨良多。
两个人都有过第一次自由恋爱的婚姻,两个人都把婚姻经营失败了,两个人都再婚了,再婚后都幸福着。我比较了一下,这里有两种典型的男人,一种就是前夫型,一种就是后夫型。
所谓前夫型,俩人都是原配,年纪相当,事业刚刚起步,互相之间关系平等,不存在谁照顾谁谁帮衬谁。这时候的丈夫,被以后的前妻贬为"不会照顾人型"。女人在家里大事小事一把抓,男人乐享其成。
为什么?因为没有历练过,不知道什么样的举动会把老婆给惹恼了,撂挑子不干。不懂得迁就和顺从,即使屈尊迁就和顺从了,没哄两下就不耐烦了。"你还没完没了了!"
而后夫,大多宽容,吃苦耐劳,会疼人,让遭遇过伤口的女人恍然大悟,原来男人还有这样的区别啊!亏得离了,不离,这一生在水深火热之中都没察觉啊!
我看了,却不苟同。
一个男人若这么优秀,就不会把婚姻经营到离。一个男人这么优秀,早被优秀的女人给抢了去,哪等到你离了再单单等候着?
这其间的五味杂陈只离了的男人才懂。
我相信,梁欢现在过得就不错,英达也会很疼人。而老赵的前妻若再婚,也是浑身幸福。
这里有个从米到酒的过程。我亲眼见过,有个朋友把好端端一老婆给气走了,再婚以后找一母夜叉,这男人却变成了五好丈夫。首先是他再不肯离了再结了,经过两段婚姻,他了解了,女人最终是殊途同归的,只可能运气越来越差,却不会越来越好。于是,换老婆的想法就不切实际了,还是脱胎换骨换自己好了。
于是,前一个女人血的教训和青春换来的失败,被后头一个女人给摘桃了。
女人大多是向前看的,宋丹丹和周涛现在一定是舒了口气并庆幸自己脱离苦海:"当年,我怎么想起来找他!"
这话,我在现实生活中,也听不少离婚女人说过。毫无后悔之色。(当然我也见过后悔的,少数)
而男人,通常不言。但你若真能深挖根儿,大多是对EX怀念或愧疚的。尤其是在今天被改造得已经失去英雄本色之后。
我最近越发少动离婚的念头了。我想明白了,我家这个宝贝,我若现在抛之不用,那就象炼丹达到第九层火候,还差最后一味我掐了,最后我就成了好男人的培训学校了。我不干那事儿,不叫其他女人有夸我家宝贝,并跟路边捡一大钱包似的畅快。虽然我也很有可能捡人家的钱包,但首先,我自己的钱包,我不能丢了。
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