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半岛都市报:双面胶粘住婆媳

 

双面胶粘住婆媳

作者:秦绪芳  来源: 半岛都市报   半岛网   2005-06-03 17


故事梗概

长篇小说《双面胶》讲述的是一个东北婆婆和一个上海媳妇之间的由家庭琐事引起的纷争,进而发展到对立。

    一个上海姑娘嫁给了一个大学毕业后留在上海工作的东北小伙子。小伙子叫亚平,其媳妇叫丽鹃。亚平在丈母娘家的帮助下,在上海买了房子成了家。

    亚平在父母来上海前是个上海标准的普通的丈夫,对老婆嘘寒问暖,端茶倒水,小夫妻亲密无间,恩爱无比。但婆婆到来后,温馨的小家生活开始发生质变。婆婆传统思想严重,希望以自己的生活方式去影响改造上海媳妇,她认为女人应该多做些家务、克勤克俭,以丈夫孩子为中心,把家中最好的东西留给男人吃。这些思想与丽鹃现代的生活方式完全冲突,婆媳之间的矛盾与日俱增,摩擦不断升级。

    在亚平的父亲因病住院后,婆媳之间因为利益之争而彻底决裂,俩人变得水火不融。即使在丽鹃为亚平生下儿子之后,婆媳关系仍然没有得到缓解。小婴儿的一句“妈妈坏”将家庭推到悬崖边缘。丽鹃因怒失言,将亚平母子逼上无家可归的境地,亚平在其妈妈的鼓动怂恿下,丧失了理智,疯狂地将拳头砸向了丽鹃。丽鹃意外的死于家庭暴力。秦绪芳

作家名片

    六六:网络女作家, 1995年大学毕业,四年后移居新加坡并开始写作。长篇小说《王贵与安娜》出版后,引起轰动。近日,她的新作《双面胶》同样在网上受到热切关注,很快也将出版与读者见面。

小说主人公

■人物:媳妇

一个清高骄傲的上海女子

    丽鹃,一个在上海长大的女孩,从小就被宠爱,没有吃过苦头,喜欢按照自己的意志行事,不愿委屈自己而讨婆婆的欢心,对婆婆的那一套生活方式尤其看不惯,对婆婆的改造坚决反抗。嘴巴过于刻薄,在同婆婆的战争中,通常占得上风,但这造成了日后自己的悲剧命运。丽鹃为人处事不够聪明,不聪明的原因还是因为她是大上海的人,不是本身不聪明,是不屑于聪明,从一开始就跟婆婆对立,不懂迂回战术,在很多问题上表现太过于强硬。并且想当然地在家庭生活中占主导地位。

    阅读:丽鹃带着二老板的指责和未完成的工作回家,嘴巴噘得像挂了两根香肠。“亚平!我好伤心呀!”一进门,丽鹃就哇哇地撒娇。“亚平不回来吃饭了,加班要到晚上10点。”婆婆又站在门口迎着拿包。“他怎么不给我打个电话?”丽鹃问。“跟家里打过不一样吗?知道个信儿就行了。吃饭,吃饭!”

    丽鹃一走进厨房胃口就倒了。桌上,放着昨天剩的猪肉炖白菜,今天里头可能也就续了点粉条儿,猪肉估计昨天就捞完了,于是,今天剩的就是白菜粉条汤。旁边放了一小碗番茄炒鸡蛋。大红的番茄非常活跃,而零星的鸡蛋显得萎靡。“吃呀吃呀!”婆婆吆喝着,还一个劲往丽鹃碗里夹粉条。公公对剩菜看也不看,筷子只往番茄上走。

    “妈,今天没买菜啊?”

    “买了。红烧肉我都放火上炖了,亚平一说不回来,我就把火给关了。家里没人,就不用那么忙活了,昨天的剩菜还有,凑合一顿,明天再吃新的。吃啊吃啊!”

    丽鹃心里冷笑一声,哼,家里没人?我不是人,你不是人?难道就你儿子是人?想起以前亚平跟丽鹃说的笑话,说他们那里女人都没地位的,若男人不在家而外头有人敲门,门都不开就回一句:“屋里没人儿!”当时还觉得特有趣,轮到自己了觉得一点不好笑。

    亚平妈手里端着盘昨天剩的炒白菜。那白菜的绿叶子昨天就被挑完了,今天只剩一堆白晃晃的皱巴巴的菜帮子。因为没有热,上面凝着点猪油霜,亚平妈炒菜放的油是从肉汤上撇出来的。“昨天的菜怎么没倒掉?”丽鹃问。

    “倒干吗呀?又不馊又不坏的,多可惜呀!我吃我吃。”

    “那你也得热热啊!冷着吃胃要坏了。”

    “热什么呀,就这几片菜叶,都不值个热的火钱,饭都滚烫的,两样一拌,正合适。”

■人物:婆婆

一个传统思想严重的东北老妈

    封建思想在亚平的妈妈心中根深蒂固,她认为女人就应该吃差的,把家中最好的东西留给男人吃,男人是家中的顶梁柱,在外边工作不容易。女人要克勤克俭,以丈夫和孩子为中心。当她看到媳妇丽鹃大手花钱,一瓶化妆品要300多元时竟然气得心里堵得慌,差点晕倒。

    丽鹃在家中支使亚平倒水喝也让婆婆非常生气。婆婆感到丽鹃好吃懒做,毛病很多,试图用自己的方式影响改造丽鹃,没想到,效果适得其反。婆媳矛盾更加尖锐。

    阅读:亚平的妈也在跟亚平絮话:“亚平啊,你可发现,找媳妇过日子跟谈恋爱还是有区别的。那些个看着好看的,不见得好用。而那些个也许不那么入眼的,反倒是过日子的一把好手。人说丑妻、薄田、破棉袄是男人的三个宝,不是没道理的。你看丽娟,别的都还行,就是不大会过日子,眼里没活儿,到家不是一坐就是一躺,床乱得像猪圈一样照样刨个空就卧下去了。没事的时候要么看电视要么搞电脑,我来一看,家里灰都落多厚,上海污染这么大,一天抹三遍都不显得亮,何况你们一周一次呢?乱一点还能忍,脏不行啊,时间长了家里要长虫子长蟑螂,家具要长霉。一样一样都是钱添的,哪能不爱惜呢?冬衣被子什么的,见个太阳就要搬出来晒,油烟机用完就要擦,不擦以后堵上了就废了。

    “人都说南方女人勤快,怎么我看她一点不像南方人?还有,她好像还特别好吃。嘴不停地嚼着,家里各种包装的塑料带,几天就一堆。吃饭的习惯尤其差,光吃菜不吃饭。菜是留着看的,目的是就饭,她倒好,空嘴吃肉,一块接一块,也不晓得让让老人让让男人,眼里没旁人。我拐弯说她吧,她还说吃饭胖。哦!吃饭胖,吃肉反倒瘦了?家业再大,也经不住这样吃啊!有句话叫坐吃山空,她真是又坐又吃。唉!本想改造改造她,你看她那天晚上的脾气,哪里讲得?这要是不讲,妈又怕你以后受罪。你们都没过过苦日子,万一哪天遭遇个什么,她肯定不是陪你落难的人。想当年文革的时候,受批判的都是才子,身边的佳人多少都逃脱了,能守在身边不离不弃的,不是乡下的原配就是以前的丫鬟。真感情都是要火炼的,我怕你万一有个什么事儿,经不起她的打击。当然,妈希望你一辈子能顺顺利利的,不必经受考验。”

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