Cigar DD, give you my fair and hearty opinion, I like your writing and wish to read more Go^a~Sf$
of it. Because of this, the least thing for me to see is the broken relationship between :? uUh
you and your MM. One thing I can be sure is that you won't live in poverty for long. 8
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As long as you have the motivation to improve your financial situation, you will be able h?Y-> !'
to achieve your financial goal eventually. rC !!X
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The "Rich dad, Poor dad" serial of books are good to read. There is one main idea I 5Z8Zb.
agree the most "Don't say you can't afford it, ask yourself how you can afford it." ;)n kY6-
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One thing I don't understand and wish you can think it again, why you insist selling the uUhqj.::<Y
house your MM purchased? Do you know there are thousands of foreign investors R_DstpsT
each year from all of the world especially the USA to invest in China's real estate? \,n|V3#G
And the RMB is still in appreciation, the trend will go on for a while. Keep the property [A DSGnw
for long term investment is not a bad idea. Bqcih$`BVU
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If you are not happy that the house is under your MM's Mom's name, you can try to W|2o^ V
persuade your MM to add her name on it, so the house will be indirectly owned by you 2SjH7
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as well after your marriage. As to the request that you pay off the mortgage for that o *]Tqx
house, if you have that much money, you just don't feel comfortable to pay it at once )GT*HJR(vc
how about asking your MM to open a joint account in both of you/MM's names and EN,PI~~F
deposit the money into it? By doing this, you can show your highest sincerity to MM 9+i rf^D`O
and extend the solid proof that you are not out of money. You can earn the interest Fx@ovI- 5
and when the RMB appreciates to a certain level, you can either sell the house or 9\dpJ\
close the joint account and exchange the money back to whatever currency at that %-nYK3
time. (Sigapore dollar or Hong Kong dollar or USA dollar) m8j Q~OS
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Anyway, keep your relationship with your MM, I don't think you should explore too \C{Dui) F
much on why her family ask this or ask that, honestly ask yourself, if you love her or , 0hk)Vvr3
not. And DO keep on your writing, you have the talent.
