Cigar DD, give you my fair and hearty opinion, I like your writing and wish to read more *2}O-e
of it. Because of this, the least thing for me to see is the broken relationship between \ n9A^v`F/
you and your MM. One thing I can be sure is that you won't live in poverty for long. !3oKmL5
As long as you have the motivation to improve your financial situation, you will be able x'Pi5NR E
to achieve your financial goal eventually. #a| L3zR5v
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The "Rich dad, Poor dad" serial of books are good to read. There is one main idea I hJ 5z/5aE;
agree the most "Don't say you can't afford it, ask yourself how you can afford it." aTGdmj!
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One thing I don't understand and wish you can think it again, why you insist selling the w(1Gi$Z(Q)
house your MM purchased? Do you know there are thousands of foreign investors DWt*jX *
each year from all of the world especially the USA to invest in China's real estate? gPzL*6OS A
And the RMB is still in appreciation, the trend will go on for a while. Keep the property ED$DSz)x
for long term investment is not a bad idea. qQxz(}REu9
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If you are not happy that the house is under your MM's Mom's name, you can try to ?zq+ jLyo
persuade your MM to add her name on it, so the house will be indirectly owned by you JK#vkCkyM
as well after your marriage. As to the request that you pay off the mortgage for that ,}xbAA#
house, if you have that much money, you just don't feel comfortable to pay it at once Sd IX-k .
how about asking your MM to open a joint account in both of you/MM's names and 5FC4@Ms`
deposit the money into it? By doing this, you can show your highest sincerity to MM IMQ]1uq0$
and extend the solid proof that you are not out of money. You can earn the interest cgC\mM4Nla
and when the RMB appreciates to a certain level, you can either sell the house or [oc~iDx%W
close the joint account and exchange the money back to whatever currency at that U,1AfzlF
time. (Sigapore dollar or Hong Kong dollar or USA dollar) 4R>zPEo
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Anyway, keep your relationship with your MM, I don't think you should explore too Rq~t4sA:
much on why her family ask this or ask that, honestly ask yourself, if you love her or ^*R (!P^
not. And DO keep on your writing, you have the talent.
