Cigar DD, give you my fair and hearty opinion, I like your writing and wish to read more 'BwM{c-O"
of it. Because of this, the least thing for me to see is the broken relationship between Y&_1U/}h
you and your MM. One thing I can be sure is that you won't live in poverty for long. b3!,r\9V
As long as you have the motivation to improve your financial situation, you will be able Y4dTv<=K@i
to achieve your financial goal eventually. 7&9'=G
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The "Rich dad, Poor dad" serial of books are good to read. There is one main idea I A At <{
agree the most "Don't say you can't afford it, ask yourself how you can afford it." yy-\$<j
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One thing I don't understand and wish you can think it again, why you insist selling the Rd.[8#7VE
house your MM purchased? Do you know there are thousands of foreign investors ^, KN@
each year from all of the world especially the USA to invest in China's real estate? =.Q|gZ
And the RMB is still in appreciation, the trend will go on for a while. Keep the property JTg
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for long term investment is not a bad idea. #%g~fh
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If you are not happy that the house is under your MM's Mom's name, you can try to )04lf*ti
persuade your MM to add her name on it, so the house will be indirectly owned by you ()+;KF8
as well after your marriage. As to the request that you pay off the mortgage for that IRQ3> 4hI
house, if you have that much money, you just don't feel comfortable to pay it at once /A) v $Bv=
how about asking your MM to open a joint account in both of you/MM's names and B.J4}Ua
deposit the money into it? By doing this, you can show your highest sincerity to MM
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and extend the solid proof that you are not out of money. You can earn the interest R!.HS0i.
and when the RMB appreciates to a certain level, you can either sell the house or {b vm83{T
close the joint account and exchange the money back to whatever currency at that ` ;R|SyrX
time. (Sigapore dollar or Hong Kong dollar or USA dollar) _;+N=/l0
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Anyway, keep your relationship with your MM, I don't think you should explore too <ArP_!
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much on why her family ask this or ask that, honestly ask yourself, if you love her or Epm=&6 zf
not. And DO keep on your writing, you have the talent.
