Cigar DD, give you my fair and hearty opinion, I like your writing and wish to read more lNHNL
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of it. Because of this, the least thing for me to see is the broken relationship between AvZXRN1:'
you and your MM. One thing I can be sure is that you won't live in poverty for long. ]X*YAPv
As long as you have the motivation to improve your financial situation, you will be able ?LM:RADCm
to achieve your financial goal eventually. %n jOX#.w
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The "Rich dad, Poor dad" serial of books are good to read. There is one main idea I YjFWC!Qj$
agree the most "Don't say you can't afford it, ask yourself how you can afford it." ?hKm&B;d
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One thing I don't understand and wish you can think it again, why you insist selling the [d0%.+U
house your MM purchased? Do you know there are thousands of foreign investors _~ v-:w
each year from all of the world especially the USA to invest in China's real estate? #De(*&y2
And the RMB is still in appreciation, the trend will go on for a while. Keep the property Fl <(m
for long term investment is not a bad idea. ^Ss<X}es-
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If you are not happy that the house is under your MM's Mom's name, you can try to CP +4k.)*O
persuade your MM to add her name on it, so the house will be indirectly owned by you b<\$d 4Qy
as well after your marriage. As to the request that you pay off the mortgage for that 9KX ym
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house, if you have that much money, you just don't feel comfortable to pay it at once ?;Un#6b
how about asking your MM to open a joint account in both of you/MM's names and 9 >%+bA(
deposit the money into it? By doing this, you can show your highest sincerity to MM H]BAW *}
and extend the solid proof that you are not out of money. You can earn the interest 6mwvI4)
and when the RMB appreciates to a certain level, you can either sell the house or }gCG&7C
close the joint account and exchange the money back to whatever currency at that 8AryIgy
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time. (Sigapore dollar or Hong Kong dollar or USA dollar) PDhWFF
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Anyway, keep your relationship with your MM, I don't think you should explore too >Z}@7$(7!~
much on why her family ask this or ask that, honestly ask yourself, if you love her or n
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not. And DO keep on your writing, you have the talent.
