Cigar DD, give you my fair and hearty opinion, I like your writing and wish to read more A& p@iE*/
of it. Because of this, the least thing for me to see is the broken relationship between |>.MH
you and your MM. One thing I can be sure is that you won't live in poverty for long. }e/vKW fT
As long as you have the motivation to improve your financial situation, you will be able wpt$bqs|1
to achieve your financial goal eventually. iE
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The "Rich dad, Poor dad" serial of books are good to read. There is one main idea I 8/(}We t
agree the most "Don't say you can't afford it, ask yourself how you can afford it." i&^JG/a
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One thing I don't understand and wish you can think it again, why you insist selling the wdfbl_`T
house your MM purchased? Do you know there are thousands of foreign investors )B"{B1(
each year from all of the world especially the USA to invest in China's real estate? Q~qM;l\i
And the RMB is still in appreciation, the trend will go on for a while. Keep the property _pZ
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for long term investment is not a bad idea. DbLo{mFEIj
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If you are not happy that the house is under your MM's Mom's name, you can try to - _ 8-
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persuade your MM to add her name on it, so the house will be indirectly owned by you J`)/\9'&&
as well after your marriage. As to the request that you pay off the mortgage for that UPr&
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house, if you have that much money, you just don't feel comfortable to pay it at once q~
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how about asking your MM to open a joint account in both of you/MM's names and =}Zl
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deposit the money into it? By doing this, you can show your highest sincerity to MM Dy,MQIM|!
and extend the solid proof that you are not out of money. You can earn the interest ^)Awj
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and when the RMB appreciates to a certain level, you can either sell the house or f S/:OnH
close the joint account and exchange the money back to whatever currency at that U5wh( vi
time. (Sigapore dollar or Hong Kong dollar or USA dollar) ;tVd+ [8
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Anyway, keep your relationship with your MM, I don't think you should explore too Gf3-%s xA
much on why her family ask this or ask that, honestly ask yourself, if you love her or "yh2+97l
not. And DO keep on your writing, you have the talent.
