Cigar DD, give you my fair and hearty opinion, I like your writing and wish to read more cxnEcX\
of it. Because of this, the least thing for me to see is the broken relationship between HVNX"`]"
you and your MM. One thing I can be sure is that you won't live in poverty for long. g7Z3GUCGL
As long as you have the motivation to improve your financial situation, you will be able +(oExp
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to achieve your financial goal eventually. @Pf['BF"
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The "Rich dad, Poor dad" serial of books are good to read. There is one main idea I ,/UuXX
agree the most "Don't say you can't afford it, ask yourself how you can afford it." CjLiLB
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One thing I don't understand and wish you can think it again, why you insist selling the UZu.B!4
house your MM purchased? Do you know there are thousands of foreign investors (b +o$C
each year from all of the world especially the USA to invest in China's real estate? Dos';9Uq
And the RMB is still in appreciation, the trend will go on for a while. Keep the property p}q]G J
for long term investment is not a bad idea. Gvqu v\
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If you are not happy that the house is under your MM's Mom's name, you can try to
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persuade your MM to add her name on it, so the house will be indirectly owned by you 8!7`F.BX
as well after your marriage. As to the request that you pay off the mortgage for that L EY k
house, if you have that much money, you just don't feel comfortable to pay it at once %6TS_IpJ
how about asking your MM to open a joint account in both of you/MM's names and U6 ~79Hnt
deposit the money into it? By doing this, you can show your highest sincerity to MM (^^}Ke{J
and extend the solid proof that you are not out of money. You can earn the interest U (A#}
and when the RMB appreciates to a certain level, you can either sell the house or D^A#C<Gs
close the joint account and exchange the money back to whatever currency at that RHuc#b0
time. (Sigapore dollar or Hong Kong dollar or USA dollar) >
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Anyway, keep your relationship with your MM, I don't think you should explore too #6n uiSF
much on why her family ask this or ask that, honestly ask yourself, if you love her or &P gk$e%>
not. And DO keep on your writing, you have the talent.
