Cigar DD, give you my fair and hearty opinion, I like your writing and wish to read more K
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of it. Because of this, the least thing for me to see is the broken relationship between :J|t! `
you and your MM. One thing I can be sure is that you won't live in poverty for long.
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As long as you have the motivation to improve your financial situation, you will be able Y`5(F>/RQG
to achieve your financial goal eventually. & 5!.!Z3
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The "Rich dad, Poor dad" serial of books are good to read. There is one main idea I Z i&qa+F
agree the most "Don't say you can't afford it, ask yourself how you can afford it." Uq0GbLjv"
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One thing I don't understand and wish you can think it again, why you insist selling the 'l+).},
house your MM purchased? Do you know there are thousands of foreign investors |{ E\ 2U
each year from all of the world especially the USA to invest in China's real estate? Ob:}@jj
And the RMB is still in appreciation, the trend will go on for a while. Keep the property 6x k~Bt
for long term investment is not a bad idea. &F4khga`^:
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If you are not happy that the house is under your MM's Mom's name, you can try to }P8@\2@=T
persuade your MM to add her name on it, so the house will be indirectly owned by you _^+z2m+ ~N
as well after your marriage. As to the request that you pay off the mortgage for that N"X;aVFs_
house, if you have that much money, you just don't feel comfortable to pay it at once NwH`t#zd
how about asking your MM to open a joint account in both of you/MM's names and V87?J w%2
deposit the money into it? By doing this, you can show your highest sincerity to MM }bQqln)#
and extend the solid proof that you are not out of money. You can earn the interest YGRv` `(
and when the RMB appreciates to a certain level, you can either sell the house or M_ -LI4>
close the joint account and exchange the money back to whatever currency at that 4l0ON>W(
time. (Sigapore dollar or Hong Kong dollar or USA dollar) 86bl'Fd KS
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Anyway, keep your relationship with your MM, I don't think you should explore too 5l"/lGw
much on why her family ask this or ask that, honestly ask yourself, if you love her or [42vO
not. And DO keep on your writing, you have the talent.
