Cigar DD, give you my fair and hearty opinion, I like your writing and wish to read more b{&@ Lm0Tn
of it. Because of this, the least thing for me to see is the broken relationship between tVO x
you and your MM. One thing I can be sure is that you won't live in poverty for long. g=)@ yZ3>v
As long as you have the motivation to improve your financial situation, you will be able
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to achieve your financial goal eventually. +"!IVH
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The "Rich dad, Poor dad" serial of books are good to read. There is one main idea I P.o W#Je
agree the most "Don't say you can't afford it, ask yourself how you can afford it." wQ 5__"D
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One thing I don't understand and wish you can think it again, why you insist selling the $)U
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house your MM purchased? Do you know there are thousands of foreign investors %9j]N$.V
each year from all of the world especially the USA to invest in China's real estate? <6@Db$-
And the RMB is still in appreciation, the trend will go on for a while. Keep the property R`c5- 0A
for long term investment is not a bad idea. G.Q+"+* ^
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If you are not happy that the house is under your MM's Mom's name, you can try to Sz
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persuade your MM to add her name on it, so the house will be indirectly owned by you /W9=7&R0
as well after your marriage. As to the request that you pay off the mortgage for that 7% h Mf$KQ
house, if you have that much money, you just don't feel comfortable to pay it at once 'G
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how about asking your MM to open a joint account in both of you/MM's names and y.zW >Mfl
deposit the money into it? By doing this, you can show your highest sincerity to MM 7$ 'j a
and extend the solid proof that you are not out of money. You can earn the interest \21!NPXH2
and when the RMB appreciates to a certain level, you can either sell the house or r*
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close the joint account and exchange the money back to whatever currency at that _xJ& p
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time. (Sigapore dollar or Hong Kong dollar or USA dollar) GB#7w82
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Anyway, keep your relationship with your MM, I don't think you should explore too -a3C3!!
much on why her family ask this or ask that, honestly ask yourself, if you love her or !Ej<J&e
not. And DO keep on your writing, you have the talent.
