Cigar DD, give you my fair and hearty opinion, I like your writing and wish to read more /
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of it. Because of this, the least thing for me to see is the broken relationship between I.< c{4K5
you and your MM. One thing I can be sure is that you won't live in poverty for long. Ve oG[Jl
As long as you have the motivation to improve your financial situation, you will be able ;P@]7vkff
to achieve your financial goal eventually. JB_fS/I
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The "Rich dad, Poor dad" serial of books are good to read. There is one main idea I [{x}# oRSE
agree the most "Don't say you can't afford it, ask yourself how you can afford it." a{5SOe;;
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One thing I don't understand and wish you can think it again, why you insist selling the ^jdU4
house your MM purchased? Do you know there are thousands of foreign investors ,erw(7 }'.
each year from all of the world especially the USA to invest in China's real estate? h@:K=gg K
And the RMB is still in appreciation, the trend will go on for a while. Keep the property )Z}AhX
for long term investment is not a bad idea. 8H!QekQZ]\
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If you are not happy that the house is under your MM's Mom's name, you can try to ~4~`bT 9
persuade your MM to add her name on it, so the house will be indirectly owned by you }#XFa#
as well after your marriage. As to the request that you pay off the mortgage for that ym%UuC3^w
house, if you have that much money, you just don't feel comfortable to pay it at once =&HL z
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how about asking your MM to open a joint account in both of you/MM's names and )BP*| URc
deposit the money into it? By doing this, you can show your highest sincerity to MM ,^(]
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and extend the solid proof that you are not out of money. You can earn the interest %Tm*^
and when the RMB appreciates to a certain level, you can either sell the house or
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close the joint account and exchange the money back to whatever currency at that j wZ
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time. (Sigapore dollar or Hong Kong dollar or USA dollar) ?e7]U*jEU
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Anyway, keep your relationship with your MM, I don't think you should explore too 8K 3dwoT
much on why her family ask this or ask that, honestly ask yourself, if you love her or o5 L ^
not. And DO keep on your writing, you have the talent.
