Cigar DD, give you my fair and hearty opinion, I like your writing and wish to read more c &bhb[
of it. Because of this, the least thing for me to see is the broken relationship between BTwc(oL
you and your MM. One thing I can be sure is that you won't live in poverty for long. gnZ
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As long as you have the motivation to improve your financial situation, you will be able &Y1h=,KR9
to achieve your financial goal eventually. &v0]{)PO
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The "Rich dad, Poor dad" serial of books are good to read. There is one main idea I g8E5"jpXx3
agree the most "Don't say you can't afford it, ask yourself how you can afford it." "Q+wO+}6
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One thing I don't understand and wish you can think it again, why you insist selling the ZB1%Kn#zo4
house your MM purchased? Do you know there are thousands of foreign investors SM)"vr_
each year from all of the world especially the USA to invest in China's real estate? >QYx9`x&
And the RMB is still in appreciation, the trend will go on for a while. Keep the property Vfzy BjQ
for long term investment is not a bad idea. k(RK AFj Y
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If you are not happy that the house is under your MM's Mom's name, you can try to >[wxZ5))
persuade your MM to add her name on it, so the house will be indirectly owned by you j_,/U^Ws|f
as well after your marriage. As to the request that you pay off the mortgage for that !x-__[#
house, if you have that much money, you just don't feel comfortable to pay it at once I*%3E.Z@g
how about asking your MM to open a joint account in both of you/MM's names and lfb+ )s
deposit the money into it? By doing this, you can show your highest sincerity to MM %1p-DX6
and extend the solid proof that you are not out of money. You can earn the interest >dK0&+A
and when the RMB appreciates to a certain level, you can either sell the house or Xbmsq,*]
close the joint account and exchange the money back to whatever currency at that xkFa
time. (Sigapore dollar or Hong Kong dollar or USA dollar) n eu<zSS
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Anyway, keep your relationship with your MM, I don't think you should explore too 4I&(>9 @z<
much on why her family ask this or ask that, honestly ask yourself, if you love her or !+$QN4{9
not. And DO keep on your writing, you have the talent.
