Cigar DD, give you my fair and hearty opinion, I like your writing and wish to read more 6l:qD` _
of it. Because of this, the least thing for me to see is the broken relationship between @P?~KW6<|
you and your MM. One thing I can be sure is that you won't live in poverty for long. XY3v_5~/1F
As long as you have the motivation to improve your financial situation, you will be able V 6,H}k
to achieve your financial goal eventually. ~o~!+`@q
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The "Rich dad, Poor dad" serial of books are good to read. There is one main idea I "L&#lfOKG
agree the most "Don't say you can't afford it, ask yourself how you can afford it." P`cq H(
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One thing I don't understand and wish you can think it again, why you insist selling the ]Yn_}Bq
house your MM purchased? Do you know there are thousands of foreign investors _y}
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each year from all of the world especially the USA to invest in China's real estate? Vo'T !e- B
And the RMB is still in appreciation, the trend will go on for a while. Keep the property #6 H A\dE
for long term investment is not a bad idea. t, +nQ9
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If you are not happy that the house is under your MM's Mom's name, you can try to 85Otss/mM
persuade your MM to add her name on it, so the house will be indirectly owned by you R[hzMU}KB
as well after your marriage. As to the request that you pay off the mortgage for that o9dY9o+Z
house, if you have that much money, you just don't feel comfortable to pay it at once kZGRxp9
how about asking your MM to open a joint account in both of you/MM's names and N @Uy=?)ZJ
deposit the money into it? By doing this, you can show your highest sincerity to MM I!Z_ [M
and extend the solid proof that you are not out of money. You can earn the interest 0i\M,TNf*
and when the RMB appreciates to a certain level, you can either sell the house or wMg0>
close the joint account and exchange the money back to whatever currency at that waj0"u^#
time. (Sigapore dollar or Hong Kong dollar or USA dollar) EZ`te0[
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Anyway, keep your relationship with your MM, I don't think you should explore too Eu@huN*/
much on why her family ask this or ask that, honestly ask yourself, if you love her or Lo N< oj5
not. And DO keep on your writing, you have the talent.
