Cigar DD, give you my fair and hearty opinion, I like your writing and wish to read more a\-5tYo`u
of it. Because of this, the least thing for me to see is the broken relationship between KUW )F
you and your MM. One thing I can be sure is that you won't live in poverty for long. ^/2 O_C
As long as you have the motivation to improve your financial situation, you will be able ft8
to achieve your financial goal eventually. h9S f
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The "Rich dad, Poor dad" serial of books are good to read. There is one main idea I qw4wg9w5p
agree the most "Don't say you can't afford it, ask yourself how you can afford it." U-?r>K2
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One thing I don't understand and wish you can think it again, why you insist selling the '1!%yKc0
house your MM purchased? Do you know there are thousands of foreign investors *)r_Y|vg
each year from all of the world especially the USA to invest in China's real estate? Z+R-}<
And the RMB is still in appreciation, the trend will go on for a while. Keep the property GF9iK|i/
for long term investment is not a bad idea. 1
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If you are not happy that the house is under your MM's Mom's name, you can try to aQhT*OT{Q
persuade your MM to add her name on it, so the house will be indirectly owned by you 0Wd5s{S
as well after your marriage. As to the request that you pay off the mortgage for that \ bNDeA&l
house, if you have that much money, you just don't feel comfortable to pay it at once gd3MP^O1
how about asking your MM to open a joint account in both of you/MM's names and ( |W6p%(
deposit the money into it? By doing this, you can show your highest sincerity to MM 7 <jr0)
and extend the solid proof that you are not out of money. You can earn the interest MXVCu"g%
and when the RMB appreciates to a certain level, you can either sell the house or \U]<HEc^
close the joint account and exchange the money back to whatever currency at that ]mBlXE:Z
time. (Sigapore dollar or Hong Kong dollar or USA dollar) $xvwnbq#y
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Anyway, keep your relationship with your MM, I don't think you should explore too o)\EfPT
much on why her family ask this or ask that, honestly ask yourself, if you love her or R
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not. And DO keep on your writing, you have the talent.
