Cigar DD, give you my fair and hearty opinion, I like your writing and wish to read more b\Ub<pE
of it. Because of this, the least thing for me to see is the broken relationship between oZtz"B
you and your MM. One thing I can be sure is that you won't live in poverty for long. kq-RM#Dj:
As long as you have the motivation to improve your financial situation, you will be able DmsloPB?_
to achieve your financial goal eventually. +i
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The "Rich dad, Poor dad" serial of books are good to read. There is one main idea I U+
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agree the most "Don't say you can't afford it, ask yourself how you can afford it." 'QU ?O[CH
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One thing I don't understand and wish you can think it again, why you insist selling the o9>X"5CmX
house your MM purchased? Do you know there are thousands of foreign investors H(s^le:!
each year from all of the world especially the USA to invest in China's real estate? OQvJdjST
And the RMB is still in appreciation, the trend will go on for a while. Keep the property t:7jlD!d
for long term investment is not a bad idea. i,T{SV
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If you are not happy that the house is under your MM's Mom's name, you can try to -bF+uCfba
persuade your MM to add her name on it, so the house will be indirectly owned by you YeJdk
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as well after your marriage. As to the request that you pay off the mortgage for that >0oc=9H8
house, if you have that much money, you just don't feel comfortable to pay it at once +
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how about asking your MM to open a joint account in both of you/MM's names and dD%m=x
deposit the money into it? By doing this, you can show your highest sincerity to MM ps{(UYM=b
and extend the solid proof that you are not out of money. You can earn the interest nE84W$\
and when the RMB appreciates to a certain level, you can either sell the house or ' M!_k+e
close the joint account and exchange the money back to whatever currency at that r_m&Jl@4
time. (Sigapore dollar or Hong Kong dollar or USA dollar) }=FQKqtC
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Anyway, keep your relationship with your MM, I don't think you should explore too jo~vOu
much on why her family ask this or ask that, honestly ask yourself, if you love her or ',pPs=
not. And DO keep on your writing, you have the talent.