Cigar DD, give you my fair and hearty opinion, I like your writing and wish to read more "?}uQ5f
of it. Because of this, the least thing for me to see is the broken relationship between L1m{]> {-
you and your MM. One thing I can be sure is that you won't live in poverty for long. #E7AmmqD%
As long as you have the motivation to improve your financial situation, you will be able ? V(^YFzZ
to achieve your financial goal eventually. 9/o vKpY
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The "Rich dad, Poor dad" serial of books are good to read. There is one main idea I 4\otq%Y
agree the most "Don't say you can't afford it, ask yourself how you can afford it." 0$ .m _0H
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One thing I don't understand and wish you can think it again, why you insist selling the IND ]j72
house your MM purchased? Do you know there are thousands of foreign investors i&Fiq&V)[
each year from all of the world especially the USA to invest in China's real estate? m}j:nk
And the RMB is still in appreciation, the trend will go on for a while. Keep the property dR^"X3$
for long term investment is not a bad idea. aG`;OgrH
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If you are not happy that the house is under your MM's Mom's name, you can try to = duks\)O
persuade your MM to add her name on it, so the house will be indirectly owned by you `_X; .U.Mv
as well after your marriage. As to the request that you pay off the mortgage for that {r85l\u)Q\
house, if you have that much money, you just don't feel comfortable to pay it at once TX8<J>x
how about asking your MM to open a joint account in both of you/MM's names and yzsab ^]
deposit the money into it? By doing this, you can show your highest sincerity to MM K{ fsn4rk
and extend the solid proof that you are not out of money. You can earn the interest &K+0xnUH
and when the RMB appreciates to a certain level, you can either sell the house or ]88];?KS}
close the joint account and exchange the money back to whatever currency at that !c#]?b%
time. (Sigapore dollar or Hong Kong dollar or USA dollar) V7Yaks
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Anyway, keep your relationship with your MM, I don't think you should explore too ;QCrHqRT`
much on why her family ask this or ask that, honestly ask yourself, if you love her or H6TD@kL9Wr
not. And DO keep on your writing, you have the talent.
