Cigar DD, give you my fair and hearty opinion, I like your writing and wish to read more EbH eP
of it. Because of this, the least thing for me to see is the broken relationship between {]]I4a
you and your MM. One thing I can be sure is that you won't live in poverty for long. L_|Y_=r."
As long as you have the motivation to improve your financial situation, you will be able V y $\.2=
to achieve your financial goal eventually. In2D32"F
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The "Rich dad, Poor dad" serial of books are good to read. There is one main idea I `R^VK-=C
agree the most "Don't say you can't afford it, ask yourself how you can afford it." B %/Pn
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One thing I don't understand and wish you can think it again, why you insist selling the I%`2RXBt3^
house your MM purchased? Do you know there are thousands of foreign investors P2kZi=0
each year from all of the world especially the USA to invest in China's real estate? i`;I"o Y4
And the RMB is still in appreciation, the trend will go on for a while. Keep the property ]gZjV
for long term investment is not a bad idea. ~ 5b %~:
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If you are not happy that the house is under your MM's Mom's name, you can try to nFSa~M
persuade your MM to add her name on it, so the house will be indirectly owned by you EzaOg|
as well after your marriage. As to the request that you pay off the mortgage for that : nt%z0_
house, if you have that much money, you just don't feel comfortable to pay it at once xB#E&}Ho
how about asking your MM to open a joint account in both of you/MM's names and gu!A:Q
deposit the money into it? By doing this, you can show your highest sincerity to MM =%p{ " <
and extend the solid proof that you are not out of money. You can earn the interest HS7!O
and when the RMB appreciates to a certain level, you can either sell the house or OoNAW<
close the joint account and exchange the money back to whatever currency at that o hCPNm
time. (Sigapore dollar or Hong Kong dollar or USA dollar) r{_'2Z_i
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Anyway, keep your relationship with your MM, I don't think you should explore too `Ii>w b
much on why her family ask this or ask that, honestly ask yourself, if you love her or Khl7Ez
not. And DO keep on your writing, you have the talent.
