Cigar DD, give you my fair and hearty opinion, I like your writing and wish to read more 5mX"0a_Q
of it. Because of this, the least thing for me to see is the broken relationship between T"DG$R,Aj
you and your MM. One thing I can be sure is that you won't live in poverty for long. q*! Vyk
As long as you have the motivation to improve your financial situation, you will be able ^|%N _ s
to achieve your financial goal eventually. =5O&4G`}
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The "Rich dad, Poor dad" serial of books are good to read. There is one main idea I CG
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agree the most "Don't say you can't afford it, ask yourself how you can afford it." b63 DD(
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One thing I don't understand and wish you can think it again, why you insist selling the 4N)45@jk[
house your MM purchased? Do you know there are thousands of foreign investors ]u
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each year from all of the world especially the USA to invest in China's real estate? m 0]1(\%
And the RMB is still in appreciation, the trend will go on for a while. Keep the property UNA!v zOb
for long term investment is not a bad idea. oXQI"?^+
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If you are not happy that the house is under your MM's Mom's name, you can try to Y,m=&U
persuade your MM to add her name on it, so the house will be indirectly owned by you RF
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as well after your marriage. As to the request that you pay off the mortgage for that 'soll[J
house, if you have that much money, you just don't feel comfortable to pay it at once 79uAsI2-Y
how about asking your MM to open a joint account in both of you/MM's names and G;e)K\[J
deposit the money into it? By doing this, you can show your highest sincerity to MM MKh}2B#S
and extend the solid proof that you are not out of money. You can earn the interest S;" $02]
and when the RMB appreciates to a certain level, you can either sell the house or \0;EHB
close the joint account and exchange the money back to whatever currency at that 79 \SbB
time. (Sigapore dollar or Hong Kong dollar or USA dollar) E J&w6),d
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Anyway, keep your relationship with your MM, I don't think you should explore too W b5n> *
much on why her family ask this or ask that, honestly ask yourself, if you love her or )_k U,RvZ
not. And DO keep on your writing, you have the talent.
