Cigar DD, give you my fair and hearty opinion, I like your writing and wish to read more 6b1 Uj<
of it. Because of this, the least thing for me to see is the broken relationship between r:S5x. P2
you and your MM. One thing I can be sure is that you won't live in poverty for long. EZNB`gO
As long as you have the motivation to improve your financial situation, you will be able s
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to achieve your financial goal eventually. dsft=t8s
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The "Rich dad, Poor dad" serial of books are good to read. There is one main idea I v*T@ <]f3j
agree the most "Don't say you can't afford it, ask yourself how you can afford it." Lh5+fk~i~8
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One thing I don't understand and wish you can think it again, why you insist selling the h^3Vd K,
house your MM purchased? Do you know there are thousands of foreign investors <P
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each year from all of the world especially the USA to invest in China's real estate? X#\ P.$
And the RMB is still in appreciation, the trend will go on for a while. Keep the property &<; nl^
for long term investment is not a bad idea. EWvid4QEi
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If you are not happy that the house is under your MM's Mom's name, you can try to >+W?!9[p:2
persuade your MM to add her name on it, so the house will be indirectly owned by you h?O%XnD
as well after your marriage. As to the request that you pay off the mortgage for that r%?}5"*
house, if you have that much money, you just don't feel comfortable to pay it at once h11bK'TI v
how about asking your MM to open a joint account in both of you/MM's names and nh_xbo5L[
deposit the money into it? By doing this, you can show your highest sincerity to MM =K&
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and extend the solid proof that you are not out of money. You can earn the interest @o-evH;G
and when the RMB appreciates to a certain level, you can either sell the house or M3xi 0/.
close the joint account and exchange the money back to whatever currency at that i~M.F=I5
time. (Sigapore dollar or Hong Kong dollar or USA dollar) hJtghG6v
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Anyway, keep your relationship with your MM, I don't think you should explore too N '1 [t
much on why her family ask this or ask that, honestly ask yourself, if you love her or l.t. , :
not. And DO keep on your writing, you have the talent.
