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引用第13楼六六于01-03-2007 20:11发表的“”: 44- R!
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I don't agree with your views on this part. The process of life is like the sea: men come and go; tides rise and fall. Don't say to give up while you are in the low spirit.
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Now I realize that any marriage will be always meeting its affair just like in the movie there are cars always crashing into each other.Coz we are human being,not a machine,we have difficulty in controlling our life as it can be.Even a machine needs maintaining constantly. {'U
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>5=mfk Not quite sure which part you don't agree upon. What I see from the current
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I_A@BnM{I the roots might have been implanted when the first time they went on different roads
q7"7U=W0 and said good-bye to each other. It might be their types, it might be that they
f%V4pzOc" couldn't get along with the other's family, it might be they did not really love each other
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Uh][@35 p nxr!`^Mne I totally agree that one should be patient and should cherish the past and appreciate
'Y]mOD ^ p the one who has been devoted himself or herself to you and the family, no one can
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+wkjS r`e This distinguishes the success and failure of the marriage. Nevertheless, the devotion
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f]`vRvbe your devotion never gets appreciated, who's fault is it? Identified the problem and
9'r:~ O correct it in the right way is the key. Love can be said with heart or without heart,
P3oI2\)*i only your loved one can tell and feel. If one has done his/her best but still gets the
wQRZ"ri, opposite result, it's the word "type" that really rips into them.
