Cigar DD, give you my fair and hearty opinion, I like your writing and wish to read more w+ MCOAB
of it. Because of this, the least thing for me to see is the broken relationship between &v}c3wL]
you and your MM. One thing I can be sure is that you won't live in poverty for long. %v)m&VUi%
As long as you have the motivation to improve your financial situation, you will be able U_\3preF
to achieve your financial goal eventually. (>.+tq
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The "Rich dad, Poor dad" serial of books are good to read. There is one main idea I g+ZQ6 Hz
agree the most "Don't say you can't afford it, ask yourself how you can afford it." 0{0 A,;b
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One thing I don't understand and wish you can think it again, why you insist selling the P gdv)i3
house your MM purchased? Do you know there are thousands of foreign investors 22`N(_
each year from all of the world especially the USA to invest in China's real estate? -`d9dJ dB
And the RMB is still in appreciation, the trend will go on for a while. Keep the property 8y$c\Eu(mF
for long term investment is not a bad idea. ) TH~Tq:
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If you are not happy that the house is under your MM's Mom's name, you can try to IgxZ_2hO
persuade your MM to add her name on it, so the house will be indirectly owned by you )wFr%wNe
as well after your marriage. As to the request that you pay off the mortgage for that T1Gy_ G/
house, if you have that much money, you just don't feel comfortable to pay it at once (bT3
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how about asking your MM to open a joint account in both of you/MM's names and j)A$%xUo
deposit the money into it? By doing this, you can show your highest sincerity to MM fG{ 9doUD
and extend the solid proof that you are not out of money. You can earn the interest >o 45vB4o
and when the RMB appreciates to a certain level, you can either sell the house or b!do7%]i
close the joint account and exchange the money back to whatever currency at that H6fR6Kr4j
time. (Sigapore dollar or Hong Kong dollar or USA dollar) Wa {()Cz
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Anyway, keep your relationship with your MM, I don't think you should explore too *U{E[<k{
much on why her family ask this or ask that, honestly ask yourself, if you love her or E
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not. And DO keep on your writing, you have the talent.
