Cigar DD, give you my fair and hearty opinion, I like your writing and wish to read more ;s*
of it. Because of this, the least thing for me to see is the broken relationship between 9f(0
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you and your MM. One thing I can be sure is that you won't live in poverty for long. DB~3(r? K
As long as you have the motivation to improve your financial situation, you will be able +N6IdDN3
to achieve your financial goal eventually. $o l]G`+
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The "Rich dad, Poor dad" serial of books are good to read. There is one main idea I eeVDU$*e=
agree the most "Don't say you can't afford it, ask yourself how you can afford it." %* }h{n
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One thing I don't understand and wish you can think it again, why you insist selling the UC
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house your MM purchased? Do you know there are thousands of foreign investors QJ
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each year from all of the world especially the USA to invest in China's real estate? (6}[y \a+
And the RMB is still in appreciation, the trend will go on for a while. Keep the property h 8%(,$*
for long term investment is not a bad idea. 7$"A2 x
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If you are not happy that the house is under your MM's Mom's name, you can try to ]iU8n (5f
persuade your MM to add her name on it, so the house will be indirectly owned by you o*k.je1
as well after your marriage. As to the request that you pay off the mortgage for that /M : 7
house, if you have that much money, you just don't feel comfortable to pay it at once qw?Wi%t(x8
how about asking your MM to open a joint account in both of you/MM's names and -/V,<@@T
deposit the money into it? By doing this, you can show your highest sincerity to MM bUzo> fm_
and extend the solid proof that you are not out of money. You can earn the interest TS_5R>R3
and when the RMB appreciates to a certain level, you can either sell the house or f: 9b q}vH
close the joint account and exchange the money back to whatever currency at that 5 8 S q
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time. (Sigapore dollar or Hong Kong dollar or USA dollar) t)kc`3i<A
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Anyway, keep your relationship with your MM, I don't think you should explore too G?M<B~}
much on why her family ask this or ask that, honestly ask yourself, if you love her or 12i<b
not. And DO keep on your writing, you have the talent.
