Cigar DD, give you my fair and hearty opinion, I like your writing and wish to read more 753gcY#i
of it. Because of this, the least thing for me to see is the broken relationship between ey<z#Q5+
you and your MM. One thing I can be sure is that you won't live in poverty for long. " \~>[on
As long as you have the motivation to improve your financial situation, you will be able _E 0yzkS
to achieve your financial goal eventually. t=:5?}J.Q$
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The "Rich dad, Poor dad" serial of books are good to read. There is one main idea I ]CU)#X<J
agree the most "Don't say you can't afford it, ask yourself how you can afford it." uJ1oo| sn
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One thing I don't understand and wish you can think it again, why you insist selling the LoJEchRK
house your MM purchased? Do you know there are thousands of foreign investors 9"D t 3>Z
each year from all of the world especially the USA to invest in China's real estate? {<Y!'WL{
And the RMB is still in appreciation, the trend will go on for a while. Keep the property .;bU["fn)
for long term investment is not a bad idea. 6 AY~ >p
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If you are not happy that the house is under your MM's Mom's name, you can try to pXQ$n:e
persuade your MM to add her name on it, so the house will be indirectly owned by you WT,dTn;W
as well after your marriage. As to the request that you pay off the mortgage for that d{WOO)j
house, if you have that much money, you just don't feel comfortable to pay it at once :*l\j"fX5
how about asking your MM to open a joint account in both of you/MM's names and %F-yF N"
deposit the money into it? By doing this, you can show your highest sincerity to MM Um-Xb'R*]V
and extend the solid proof that you are not out of money. You can earn the interest &C9)%5 O)
and when the RMB appreciates to a certain level, you can either sell the house or 3 S>rc0]6
close the joint account and exchange the money back to whatever currency at that F2(^O Fh
time. (Sigapore dollar or Hong Kong dollar or USA dollar) $i3`cX)g
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Anyway, keep your relationship with your MM, I don't think you should explore too 4 },Y0 QXw
much on why her family ask this or ask that, honestly ask yourself, if you love her or y~t
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not. And DO keep on your writing, you have the talent.
