Cigar DD, give you my fair and hearty opinion, I like your writing and wish to read more D)* _{
of it. Because of this, the least thing for me to see is the broken relationship between EAC(^+15K
you and your MM. One thing I can be sure is that you won't live in poverty for long. `FYtiv?G
As long as you have the motivation to improve your financial situation, you will be able U-~*
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to achieve your financial goal eventually. _yxe2[TD
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The "Rich dad, Poor dad" serial of books are good to read. There is one main idea I ^b"x| 8
agree the most "Don't say you can't afford it, ask yourself how you can afford it." E2q B
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One thing I don't understand and wish you can think it again, why you insist selling the UPVO~hB;
house your MM purchased? Do you know there are thousands of foreign investors o]|oA N9
each year from all of the world especially the USA to invest in China's real estate? "] SJbuzh
And the RMB is still in appreciation, the trend will go on for a while. Keep the property S&
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for long term investment is not a bad idea. !X\sQNp
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If you are not happy that the house is under your MM's Mom's name, you can try to =0s`4Y"+
persuade your MM to add her name on it, so the house will be indirectly owned by you } Jdh^t .
as well after your marriage. As to the request that you pay off the mortgage for that 3Y1TQ;i,wQ
house, if you have that much money, you just don't feel comfortable to pay it at once <nOuyGIZ
how about asking your MM to open a joint account in both of you/MM's names and
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deposit the money into it? By doing this, you can show your highest sincerity to MM NWQPOq#
and extend the solid proof that you are not out of money. You can earn the interest 1&8j3"
and when the RMB appreciates to a certain level, you can either sell the house or ]xJ'oBhy
close the joint account and exchange the money back to whatever currency at that m0BG 9~p|
time. (Sigapore dollar or Hong Kong dollar or USA dollar) 1%SJ1oY
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Anyway, keep your relationship with your MM, I don't think you should explore too w>z8c3Dq}
much on why her family ask this or ask that, honestly ask yourself, if you love her or ^^4K/XBve
not. And DO keep on your writing, you have the talent.
