Cigar DD, give you my fair and hearty opinion, I like your writing and wish to read more nR~(0G,H
of it. Because of this, the least thing for me to see is the broken relationship between A's{ j7
you and your MM. One thing I can be sure is that you won't live in poverty for long. ]tD]Wx%
As long as you have the motivation to improve your financial situation, you will be able PM+[, H
to achieve your financial goal eventually. }*-@!wc-N
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The "Rich dad, Poor dad" serial of books are good to read. There is one main idea I G2Zer=rC
agree the most "Don't say you can't afford it, ask yourself how you can afford it." 7Wno':w8
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One thing I don't understand and wish you can think it again, why you insist selling the 3 Y &d=
house your MM purchased? Do you know there are thousands of foreign investors rKn~qV ls
each year from all of the world especially the USA to invest in China's real estate? ..qCPlK;
And the RMB is still in appreciation, the trend will go on for a while. Keep the property 0mn w{fE8_
for long term investment is not a bad idea. ,)X Lq8
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If you are not happy that the house is under your MM's Mom's name, you can try to PdCEUh\>y
persuade your MM to add her name on it, so the house will be indirectly owned by you w@b)g
as well after your marriage. As to the request that you pay off the mortgage for that TN.rrop`#g
house, if you have that much money, you just don't feel comfortable to pay it at once yw!{MO
how about asking your MM to open a joint account in both of you/MM's names and pGZ8F
deposit the money into it? By doing this, you can show your highest sincerity to MM 9UkBwS`
and extend the solid proof that you are not out of money. You can earn the interest Qd-A.{[h
and when the RMB appreciates to a certain level, you can either sell the house or N0lC0
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close the joint account and exchange the money back to whatever currency at that ~V-XEQA
time. (Sigapore dollar or Hong Kong dollar or USA dollar) e!Hh s/&!T
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Anyway, keep your relationship with your MM, I don't think you should explore too #jk_ 5W
much on why her family ask this or ask that, honestly ask yourself, if you love her or ;]iRk
not. And DO keep on your writing, you have the talent.
