Cigar DD, give you my fair and hearty opinion, I like your writing and wish to read more ?'a>?al%>
of it. Because of this, the least thing for me to see is the broken relationship between v\8v' EDP
you and your MM. One thing I can be sure is that you won't live in poverty for long. k6z
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As long as you have the motivation to improve your financial situation, you will be able "@^<~bw
to achieve your financial goal eventually. OqMdm~4B!j
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The "Rich dad, Poor dad" serial of books are good to read. There is one main idea I *q=\e 9
agree the most "Don't say you can't afford it, ask yourself how you can afford it." t^K Qv~
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One thing I don't understand and wish you can think it again, why you insist selling the FO[ s;dmzu
house your MM purchased? Do you know there are thousands of foreign investors xg,
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each year from all of the world especially the USA to invest in China's real estate? oKGF'y?A>
And the RMB is still in appreciation, the trend will go on for a while. Keep the property Hs8JJGXWB
for long term investment is not a bad idea. B.od{@I(Xp
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If you are not happy that the house is under your MM's Mom's name, you can try to *rw6?u9I
persuade your MM to add her name on it, so the house will be indirectly owned by you ~E8/m_> rU
as well after your marriage. As to the request that you pay off the mortgage for that r vq{Dfo=
house, if you have that much money, you just don't feel comfortable to pay it at once R'tvF$3=i
how about asking your MM to open a joint account in both of you/MM's names and m%})H"5
deposit the money into it? By doing this, you can show your highest sincerity to MM >f Hu
and extend the solid proof that you are not out of money. You can earn the interest ./3/3&6
and when the RMB appreciates to a certain level, you can either sell the house or --"5yGOL
close the joint account and exchange the money back to whatever currency at that l3^'b p6HQ
time. (Sigapore dollar or Hong Kong dollar or USA dollar) PR!
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Anyway, keep your relationship with your MM, I don't think you should explore too ^
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much on why her family ask this or ask that, honestly ask yourself, if you love her or k=kkF"
not. And DO keep on your writing, you have the talent.