Cigar DD, give you my fair and hearty opinion, I like your writing and wish to read more i5
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of it. Because of this, the least thing for me to see is the broken relationship between 8
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you and your MM. One thing I can be sure is that you won't live in poverty for long. BEXQTM3])I
As long as you have the motivation to improve your financial situation, you will be able X`
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to achieve your financial goal eventually. G pdv]SON{
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The "Rich dad, Poor dad" serial of books are good to read. There is one main idea I kUn2RZ6$#
agree the most "Don't say you can't afford it, ask yourself how you can afford it." 2#AeN6\@
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One thing I don't understand and wish you can think it again, why you insist selling the E[jXUOu -
house your MM purchased? Do you know there are thousands of foreign investors S9HBr
each year from all of the world especially the USA to invest in China's real estate? ~Jwp NJs
And the RMB is still in appreciation, the trend will go on for a while. Keep the property R%b*EBZ
for long term investment is not a bad idea. }z%OnP
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If you are not happy that the house is under your MM's Mom's name, you can try to I%}L@fZ
persuade your MM to add her name on it, so the house will be indirectly owned by you Ig1l ol:;
as well after your marriage. As to the request that you pay off the mortgage for that %XJQ0CE<(
house, if you have that much money, you just don't feel comfortable to pay it at once c Q(}^KO
how about asking your MM to open a joint account in both of you/MM's names and
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deposit the money into it? By doing this, you can show your highest sincerity to MM G Sz @rDGY
and extend the solid proof that you are not out of money. You can earn the interest (VYR!(17
and when the RMB appreciates to a certain level, you can either sell the house or y Y>-MoF/t
close the joint account and exchange the money back to whatever currency at that Qj
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time. (Sigapore dollar or Hong Kong dollar or USA dollar) cW)Oi^q%o2
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Anyway, keep your relationship with your MM, I don't think you should explore too *.m{jgi1X
much on why her family ask this or ask that, honestly ask yourself, if you love her or 3z,v#2
not. And DO keep on your writing, you have the talent.
