Cigar DD, give you my fair and hearty opinion, I like your writing and wish to read more fab'\|Y
of it. Because of this, the least thing for me to see is the broken relationship between y0zMK4b
you and your MM. One thing I can be sure is that you won't live in poverty for long. @
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As long as you have the motivation to improve your financial situation, you will be able +r:g }i
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to achieve your financial goal eventually. #
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The "Rich dad, Poor dad" serial of books are good to read. There is one main idea I )t6]F6!_
agree the most "Don't say you can't afford it, ask yourself how you can afford it." N[%u>!
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One thing I don't understand and wish you can think it again, why you insist selling the I6>J.6luF9
house your MM purchased? Do you know there are thousands of foreign investors zWHq4@ K
each year from all of the world especially the USA to invest in China's real estate? $
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And the RMB is still in appreciation, the trend will go on for a while. Keep the property $l7^-SK`E
for long term investment is not a bad idea. 1U 6B$(V^i
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If you are not happy that the house is under your MM's Mom's name, you can try to AK:cDKBO
persuade your MM to add her name on it, so the house will be indirectly owned by you 0> f!S` *
as well after your marriage. As to the request that you pay off the mortgage for that ;_<R +w3-
house, if you have that much money, you just don't feel comfortable to pay it at once 8bIP"!=*W
how about asking your MM to open a joint account in both of you/MM's names and @:lM|2:
deposit the money into it? By doing this, you can show your highest sincerity to MM )!T~l(g
and extend the solid proof that you are not out of money. You can earn the interest TdtV (
and when the RMB appreciates to a certain level, you can either sell the house or O'y8q[2KE
close the joint account and exchange the money back to whatever currency at that *ByHTd
time. (Sigapore dollar or Hong Kong dollar or USA dollar) +v Bi7#&
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Anyway, keep your relationship with your MM, I don't think you should explore too 5/meH[R\M
much on why her family ask this or ask that, honestly ask yourself, if you love her or Q;M\fBQO}&
not. And DO keep on your writing, you have the talent.
