Cigar DD, give you my fair and hearty opinion, I like your writing and wish to read more 6 X ]I`e
of it. Because of this, the least thing for me to see is the broken relationship between }r04*P(
you and your MM. One thing I can be sure is that you won't live in poverty for long. H~[q<ybxr
As long as you have the motivation to improve your financial situation, you will be able YWPkVvI
to achieve your financial goal eventually. D*L@I@
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The "Rich dad, Poor dad" serial of books are good to read. There is one main idea I s\ .r3U&6
agree the most "Don't say you can't afford it, ask yourself how you can afford it." ?r ;F'%N=
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One thing I don't understand and wish you can think it again, why you insist selling the c%< 81Y=
house your MM purchased? Do you know there are thousands of foreign investors 65B&>`H~
each year from all of the world especially the USA to invest in China's real estate? Ez
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And the RMB is still in appreciation, the trend will go on for a while. Keep the property n(A;:) W{
for long term investment is not a bad idea. ''2:ZX X
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If you are not happy that the house is under your MM's Mom's name, you can try to P'$2%P$8:~
persuade your MM to add her name on it, so the house will be indirectly owned by you .WglLUJ:Z
as well after your marriage. As to the request that you pay off the mortgage for that Q8TR@0d
house, if you have that much money, you just don't feel comfortable to pay it at once tl i*3YIw
how about asking your MM to open a joint account in both of you/MM's names and s#~VN;-I
deposit the money into it? By doing this, you can show your highest sincerity to MM qPu?rU{2
and extend the solid proof that you are not out of money. You can earn the interest O-AC$C[d
and when the RMB appreciates to a certain level, you can either sell the house or r0z8?
close the joint account and exchange the money back to whatever currency at that .9DhD=8aIO
time. (Sigapore dollar or Hong Kong dollar or USA dollar) E:}s 6l
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Anyway, keep your relationship with your MM, I don't think you should explore too OfLj 4H 6Q
much on why her family ask this or ask that, honestly ask yourself, if you love her or i{g~u<DH)Q
not. And DO keep on your writing, you have the talent.
