Cigar DD, give you my fair and hearty opinion, I like your writing and wish to read more %J L P=(
of it. Because of this, the least thing for me to see is the broken relationship between b\S
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you and your MM. One thing I can be sure is that you won't live in poverty for long. B [s
As long as you have the motivation to improve your financial situation, you will be able +_1sFH`
to achieve your financial goal eventually. ,lcS J^yr
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The "Rich dad, Poor dad" serial of books are good to read. There is one main idea I >%H(0G# X
agree the most "Don't say you can't afford it, ask yourself how you can afford it."
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One thing I don't understand and wish you can think it again, why you insist selling the /B <QYvv
house your MM purchased? Do you know there are thousands of foreign investors 0.[t
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each year from all of the world especially the USA to invest in China's real estate? C}qHvwFm
And the RMB is still in appreciation, the trend will go on for a while. Keep the property m "96%sB
for long term investment is not a bad idea. rXR!jZ.hi
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If you are not happy that the house is under your MM's Mom's name, you can try to G%ZP `
persuade your MM to add her name on it, so the house will be indirectly owned by you ..7 " <"uH
as well after your marriage. As to the request that you pay off the mortgage for that _tRRIW"Vx"
house, if you have that much money, you just don't feel comfortable to pay it at once &B\ sG=
how about asking your MM to open a joint account in both of you/MM's names and 8 .:WMH`
deposit the money into it? By doing this, you can show your highest sincerity to MM yoH,4,! G
and extend the solid proof that you are not out of money. You can earn the interest Ka y\;fXT
and when the RMB appreciates to a certain level, you can either sell the house or zbI|3
close the joint account and exchange the money back to whatever currency at that a}Z+"D
time. (Sigapore dollar or Hong Kong dollar or USA dollar) d7S?"JpV
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Anyway, keep your relationship with your MM, I don't think you should explore too VWc)AfKe
much on why her family ask this or ask that, honestly ask yourself, if you love her or r+k g$+% b
not. And DO keep on your writing, you have the talent.
