Cigar DD, give you my fair and hearty opinion, I like your writing and wish to read more O=}g 4c
of it. Because of this, the least thing for me to see is the broken relationship between w 5,Mb
you and your MM. One thing I can be sure is that you won't live in poverty for long. tU@zhGb
As long as you have the motivation to improve your financial situation, you will be able qf#)lyr<D6
to achieve your financial goal eventually. ^U@~+dw
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The "Rich dad, Poor dad" serial of books are good to read. There is one main idea I (=u'sn:s
agree the most "Don't say you can't afford it, ask yourself how you can afford it." ]s_8A`v m
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One thing I don't understand and wish you can think it again, why you insist selling the pHC /(6?
house your MM purchased? Do you know there are thousands of foreign investors ,<` )>2 'o
each year from all of the world especially the USA to invest in China's real estate? 0N;%2=2_E
And the RMB is still in appreciation, the trend will go on for a while. Keep the property QkQ!Ep(
for long term investment is not a bad idea. 4w 93}t.z
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If you are not happy that the house is under your MM's Mom's name, you can try to !wE}(0B Tx
persuade your MM to add her name on it, so the house will be indirectly owned by you e,0-)?5R
as well after your marriage. As to the request that you pay off the mortgage for that e E(b4RCM
house, if you have that much money, you just don't feel comfortable to pay it at once $_Nf-:D*
how about asking your MM to open a joint account in both of you/MM's names and cn`iX(ZgR
deposit the money into it? By doing this, you can show your highest sincerity to MM :TalW~r |
and extend the solid proof that you are not out of money. You can earn the interest 6RoAl$}'
and when the RMB appreciates to a certain level, you can either sell the house or 2g-` ]Vqb
close the joint account and exchange the money back to whatever currency at that h6v07 7qG
time. (Sigapore dollar or Hong Kong dollar or USA dollar) w7TJv4_
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Anyway, keep your relationship with your MM, I don't think you should explore too q7\Ovjs0
much on why her family ask this or ask that, honestly ask yourself, if you love her or 33Az$GXFsq
not. And DO keep on your writing, you have the talent.
