Cigar DD, give you my fair and hearty opinion, I like your writing and wish to read more 1Cm~X$S.
of it. Because of this, the least thing for me to see is the broken relationship between %*lp< D
you and your MM. One thing I can be sure is that you won't live in poverty for long. b
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As long as you have the motivation to improve your financial situation, you will be able FigR1/3o'6
to achieve your financial goal eventually. ) k YOHS
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The "Rich dad, Poor dad" serial of books are good to read. There is one main idea I \PpXL*.
agree the most "Don't say you can't afford it, ask yourself how you can afford it." (;a B!(_
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One thing I don't understand and wish you can think it again, why you insist selling the OL3UgepF
house your MM purchased? Do you know there are thousands of foreign investors
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each year from all of the world especially the USA to invest in China's real estate? $5,~JYc b
And the RMB is still in appreciation, the trend will go on for a while. Keep the property Sw)i1S9
for long term investment is not a bad idea. z3a-+NjD m
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If you are not happy that the house is under your MM's Mom's name, you can try to !z"Nv1!~|
persuade your MM to add her name on it, so the house will be indirectly owned by you ;54(+5pqx
as well after your marriage. As to the request that you pay off the mortgage for that mN;+TN'?{
house, if you have that much money, you just don't feel comfortable to pay it at once ueDvMP
how about asking your MM to open a joint account in both of you/MM's names and x?"#gK`3;
deposit the money into it? By doing this, you can show your highest sincerity to MM _\.{6" "
and extend the solid proof that you are not out of money. You can earn the interest #EbGL])F}
and when the RMB appreciates to a certain level, you can either sell the house or V!4a*,Pz
close the joint account and exchange the money back to whatever currency at that 79ck Ld9
time. (Sigapore dollar or Hong Kong dollar or USA dollar) Jf7frzw
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Anyway, keep your relationship with your MM, I don't think you should explore too AoYaVlKG8
much on why her family ask this or ask that, honestly ask yourself, if you love her or 7^$)VBQ/
not. And DO keep on your writing, you have the talent.
