Cigar DD, give you my fair and hearty opinion, I like your writing and wish to read more 2E-Kz?,:[
of it. Because of this, the least thing for me to see is the broken relationship between Z?eTjkNS#
you and your MM. One thing I can be sure is that you won't live in poverty for long. 0kUhz\"R:q
As long as you have the motivation to improve your financial situation, you will be able fz|*Plv
to achieve your financial goal eventually. -U2Su|:\N8
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The "Rich dad, Poor dad" serial of books are good to read. There is one main idea I `:iMGqZN
agree the most "Don't say you can't afford it, ask yourself how you can afford it." 0aY|:
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One thing I don't understand and wish you can think it again, why you insist selling the sccLP_#Z
house your MM purchased? Do you know there are thousands of foreign investors :rr<#F
each year from all of the world especially the USA to invest in China's real estate? %bP+P(vZ
And the RMB is still in appreciation, the trend will go on for a while. Keep the property %g7j7$c
for long term investment is not a bad idea. Vx!ZF+
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If you are not happy that the house is under your MM's Mom's name, you can try to bSIY|/d+
persuade your MM to add her name on it, so the house will be indirectly owned by you
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as well after your marriage. As to the request that you pay off the mortgage for that %1{S{FB
house, if you have that much money, you just don't feel comfortable to pay it at once 'gN[LERT
how about asking your MM to open a joint account in both of you/MM's names and NN7KwVg
deposit the money into it? By doing this, you can show your highest sincerity to MM e)HFI|>
and extend the solid proof that you are not out of money. You can earn the interest Kh3i.gm7g
and when the RMB appreciates to a certain level, you can either sell the house or D\G 8p;
close the joint account and exchange the money back to whatever currency at that s>DFAu!
time. (Sigapore dollar or Hong Kong dollar or USA dollar) Ov(k:"N
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Anyway, keep your relationship with your MM, I don't think you should explore too cUug}/!I
much on why her family ask this or ask that, honestly ask yourself, if you love her or \l=A2i7TQ
not. And DO keep on your writing, you have the talent.