Cigar DD, give you my fair and hearty opinion, I like your writing and wish to read more | z 1
of it. Because of this, the least thing for me to see is the broken relationship between UDBMf2F]
you and your MM. One thing I can be sure is that you won't live in poverty for long. )=~OP>7B
As long as you have the motivation to improve your financial situation, you will be able >s 5i
to achieve your financial goal eventually. Yo 0wufbfV
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The "Rich dad, Poor dad" serial of books are good to read. There is one main idea I Y@jO #6R
agree the most "Don't say you can't afford it, ask yourself how you can afford it." ^Z
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One thing I don't understand and wish you can think it again, why you insist selling the XfYMv38(
house your MM purchased? Do you know there are thousands of foreign investors "s$$M\)T
each year from all of the world especially the USA to invest in China's real estate? =t k O^
And the RMB is still in appreciation, the trend will go on for a while. Keep the property {WYJQKs 8
for long term investment is not a bad idea. 8h,>f#)0c
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If you are not happy that the house is under your MM's Mom's name, you can try to G+?Z=A:T8
persuade your MM to add her name on it, so the house will be indirectly owned by you GkOZ =ej
as well after your marriage. As to the request that you pay off the mortgage for that y\?T%g
house, if you have that much money, you just don't feel comfortable to pay it at once ?pBQaUl&
how about asking your MM to open a joint account in both of you/MM's names and *H2@lr
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deposit the money into it? By doing this, you can show your highest sincerity to MM y.iA]
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and extend the solid proof that you are not out of money. You can earn the interest YadG05PDe
and when the RMB appreciates to a certain level, you can either sell the house or U*p;
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close the joint account and exchange the money back to whatever currency at that \
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time. (Sigapore dollar or Hong Kong dollar or USA dollar) Gr),o6}p
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Anyway, keep your relationship with your MM, I don't think you should explore too -~Ll;}nZC
much on why her family ask this or ask that, honestly ask yourself, if you love her or i[IOR 0
not. And DO keep on your writing, you have the talent.
