Cigar DD, give you my fair and hearty opinion, I like your writing and wish to read more " a;z
of it. Because of this, the least thing for me to see is the broken relationship between d.y2`wT
you and your MM. One thing I can be sure is that you won't live in poverty for long. L-ans2?
As long as you have the motivation to improve your financial situation, you will be able &X0/7)*
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to achieve your financial goal eventually. /?X1>A:*
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The "Rich dad, Poor dad" serial of books are good to read. There is one main idea I Cr0
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agree the most "Don't say you can't afford it, ask yourself how you can afford it." 9`{[J ['V
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One thing I don't understand and wish you can think it again, why you insist selling the VesW7m*z
house your MM purchased? Do you know there are thousands of foreign investors yH_L< n
each year from all of the world especially the USA to invest in China's real estate? iw1((&^)"
And the RMB is still in appreciation, the trend will go on for a while. Keep the property +SCUS ]
for long term investment is not a bad idea. :()(P9?
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If you are not happy that the house is under your MM's Mom's name, you can try to H{|a+
persuade your MM to add her name on it, so the house will be indirectly owned by you 86d *
as well after your marriage. As to the request that you pay off the mortgage for that SR>Sq2cW0
house, if you have that much money, you just don't feel comfortable to pay it at once N,v4SIC@
how about asking your MM to open a joint account in both of you/MM's names and Od X-.FFl
deposit the money into it? By doing this, you can show your highest sincerity to MM u*_I7.}9
and extend the solid proof that you are not out of money. You can earn the interest KI (9TI *
and when the RMB appreciates to a certain level, you can either sell the house or 'Tcl H80
close the joint account and exchange the money back to whatever currency at that A6w/X`([O
time. (Sigapore dollar or Hong Kong dollar or USA dollar) "o#N6Qu71
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Anyway, keep your relationship with your MM, I don't think you should explore too
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much on why her family ask this or ask that, honestly ask yourself, if you love her or B@!a@0,, _
not. And DO keep on your writing, you have the talent.
