Cigar DD, give you my fair and hearty opinion, I like your writing and wish to read more d&[.=M\E8
of it. Because of this, the least thing for me to see is the broken relationship between w`F4.e
you and your MM. One thing I can be sure is that you won't live in poverty for long. SSG}'W!z
As long as you have the motivation to improve your financial situation, you will be able mtu`m6Xix
to achieve your financial goal eventually. Bi|XdS$G
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The "Rich dad, Poor dad" serial of books are good to read. There is one main idea I %b(n on*
agree the most "Don't say you can't afford it, ask yourself how you can afford it." b|z_1j6U
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One thing I don't understand and wish you can think it again, why you insist selling the p? +*R@O
house your MM purchased? Do you know there are thousands of foreign investors I Lq"/S.
each year from all of the world especially the USA to invest in China's real estate? CkA
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And the RMB is still in appreciation, the trend will go on for a while. Keep the property
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for long term investment is not a bad idea. YJEL'k<l
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If you are not happy that the house is under your MM's Mom's name, you can try to En]+mIEo
persuade your MM to add her name on it, so the house will be indirectly owned by you I%fz^:[#<
as well after your marriage. As to the request that you pay off the mortgage for that YQk<1./}I
house, if you have that much money, you just don't feel comfortable to pay it at once X1{U''$
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how about asking your MM to open a joint account in both of you/MM's names and ^9PB+mz
deposit the money into it? By doing this, you can show your highest sincerity to MM ??.9`3CYo
and extend the solid proof that you are not out of money. You can earn the interest 2V 9vS
and when the RMB appreciates to a certain level, you can either sell the house or Ib665H7w
close the joint account and exchange the money back to whatever currency at that t lz)V1L
time. (Sigapore dollar or Hong Kong dollar or USA dollar) sVJwe\!
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Anyway, keep your relationship with your MM, I don't think you should explore too WQT;k0;T]
much on why her family ask this or ask that, honestly ask yourself, if you love her or d
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not. And DO keep on your writing, you have the talent.
