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ZT: 父母给17岁孩子的十点建议
ZT: 父母给17岁孩子的十点建议http://blog.wenxuecity.com/myblog/50355/201304/13523.html最近，家里家外都是多事，一打开新闻，满眼禽流感，原子弹，马拉松爆炸事件。。。
家里呢，17岁的老大，今年上高三，正忙着考ACT、SAT，并开始为大学申请做准备。
昨晚俺和老公陪他去学校参加College Fair。只见有足球场大的活动厅里，人头攒动，令人想起久违的中国集市，排成长龙的桌子后面，站着衣冠楚楚的美国各大学代表，指手画脚地讲说，人群中穿梭着紧张亢奋的家长学生。。。看着比爸爸还高大的儿子，俺心里突然像打翻了五味瓶，既高兴，又担心。高兴的是，他终于长大成人，变得勤奋懂事了。担心的是，他翅膀还不够硬，万一放出去~~~
记得16岁那年，俺提着硕大的行李箱，只身南下，莽莽撞撞地踏入人生塑造最关键的大学时代。临行前一夜父母千叮万嘱，俺光顾激动，一句也没听进去，后来自己走了不少弯路，，，，那时的生活，比现在简单得多，，，，如今这个变换叵测的世界，做父母的，该怎样嘱咐孩子，才能让他们路走得顺当，别重蹈俺们的覆辙？
回去琢磨半天，俺总结出十条建议，送给了孩子。老大看完，会心一笑，说：Mom，thank you very much！
（Many thanks to Dr. Decentdreamer，who contributed many insights, beautiful pictures and music. Wish him and his daughter the best of luck in college searching! )
Ten Pieces of Advice for My Kids
1. Love God, yourself and others -----Love is the bread of life, you have to plant and grow the seeds first.
2. Respect your parents' and wise men's advice-----For they have walked the path and know where the potholes are.
3. Be eager to learn throughout life and work hard-----Knowledge is brick, the more you get, the bigger your house becomes.
4. Set up and achieve your goals as early as possible----Before turning the car key, don't you want to know where you are going?
5. Be independent and responsible----No matter how hard it is, you have to finish the race yourself. No one can run this life for you.
6. Keep fit and pay attention to your health---- A healthy body empowers you.
7. Reach out and serve as many as you can----The world is a better place to live when we help each other.
8. Be honest and sincere with people---The happiest person is the one who stays true to him(her)self.
9.Spend time with your family and keep your friends close-----These are pearls of your life, treasure them always.
10. Above all, even in the worst of time, never lose hope-----A rainbow only appears after a severe thunderstorm. No matter how dark the night is, the Sun rises.
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