Cigar DD, give you my fair and hearty opinion, I like your writing and wish to read more 57:Wh= x
of it. Because of this, the least thing for me to see is the broken relationship between qgTN %%"~
you and your MM. One thing I can be sure is that you won't live in poverty for long. ODE9@]a
As long as you have the motivation to improve your financial situation, you will be able D4jf%7X!Lu
to achieve your financial goal eventually. K5(:UIWx
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The "Rich dad, Poor dad" serial of books are good to read. There is one main idea I 0>PO4W FVJ
agree the most "Don't say you can't afford it, ask yourself how you can afford it." ai/VbV'|
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One thing I don't understand and wish you can think it again, why you insist selling the |/LCwq%
house your MM purchased? Do you know there are thousands of foreign investors XHq8p[F
each year from all of the world especially the USA to invest in China's real estate? 6uWzv~!*D
And the RMB is still in appreciation, the trend will go on for a while. Keep the property X 2ShxD|
for long term investment is not a bad idea. w783e
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If you are not happy that the house is under your MM's Mom's name, you can try to J UBihw4
persuade your MM to add her name on it, so the house will be indirectly owned by you L\ p@1N?K
as well after your marriage. As to the request that you pay off the mortgage for that hN%
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house, if you have that much money, you just don't feel comfortable to pay it at once ) {=2td$=$
how about asking your MM to open a joint account in both of you/MM's names and doJ\7c5uU
deposit the money into it? By doing this, you can show your highest sincerity to MM 8'c_&\kdv
and extend the solid proof that you are not out of money. You can earn the interest Gp6|0:2,L~
and when the RMB appreciates to a certain level, you can either sell the house or ^'"sFEV7RN
close the joint account and exchange the money back to whatever currency at that 8GC (?#Kb
time. (Sigapore dollar or Hong Kong dollar or USA dollar) !L5[s
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Anyway, keep your relationship with your MM, I don't think you should explore too :m|%=@]`
much on why her family ask this or ask that, honestly ask yourself, if you love her or {-X8MisI
not. And DO keep on your writing, you have the talent.
