Cigar DD, give you my fair and hearty opinion, I like your writing and wish to read more ~-zIB=TyK
of it. Because of this, the least thing for me to see is the broken relationship between lk
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you and your MM. One thing I can be sure is that you won't live in poverty for long. 3Qe|'E,U
As long as you have the motivation to improve your financial situation, you will be able J~5V 7B
to achieve your financial goal eventually. < 8b1OdA
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The "Rich dad, Poor dad" serial of books are good to read. There is one main idea I 0vj CSU-X
agree the most "Don't say you can't afford it, ask yourself how you can afford it." -SM_JR3<
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One thing I don't understand and wish you can think it again, why you insist selling the j $q5m 24L
house your MM purchased? Do you know there are thousands of foreign investors pZ>yBY?R8>
each year from all of the world especially the USA to invest in China's real estate? m:h6J''<Z*
And the RMB is still in appreciation, the trend will go on for a while. Keep the property .3C::~:
for long term investment is not a bad idea. v > wN
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If you are not happy that the house is under your MM's Mom's name, you can try to kAEq +{h
persuade your MM to add her name on it, so the house will be indirectly owned by you } 8 z :L<
as well after your marriage. As to the request that you pay off the mortgage for that !4a fU:
house, if you have that much money, you just don't feel comfortable to pay it at once 5=C?,1F$A
how about asking your MM to open a joint account in both of you/MM's names and !0@4*>n
deposit the money into it? By doing this, you can show your highest sincerity to MM 9s"st\u
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and extend the solid proof that you are not out of money. You can earn the interest x\ G%
and when the RMB appreciates to a certain level, you can either sell the house or T9V=#+8#"
close the joint account and exchange the money back to whatever currency at that I #1~CbR
time. (Sigapore dollar or Hong Kong dollar or USA dollar) ! eZls
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Anyway, keep your relationship with your MM, I don't think you should explore too ni2#20L
much on why her family ask this or ask that, honestly ask yourself, if you love her or 7G_<+rn
not. And DO keep on your writing, you have the talent.
