Cigar DD, give you my fair and hearty opinion, I like your writing and wish to read more _ r)hr7
of it. Because of this, the least thing for me to see is the broken relationship between [ ESQD5&
you and your MM. One thing I can be sure is that you won't live in poverty for long. ,> E Y9j
As long as you have the motivation to improve your financial situation, you will be able w)c#ZJHG
to achieve your financial goal eventually. u>Kvub
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The "Rich dad, Poor dad" serial of books are good to read. There is one main idea I ,#FH8%Yf
agree the most "Don't say you can't afford it, ask yourself how you can afford it." L&k$ 4,Z9
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One thing I don't understand and wish you can think it again, why you insist selling the C jb p-
house your MM purchased? Do you know there are thousands of foreign investors w%u[~T7OI
each year from all of the world especially the USA to invest in China's real estate? -5*;J&.
And the RMB is still in appreciation, the trend will go on for a while. Keep the property V0 &QEul
for long term investment is not a bad idea. 8*) {*'bf
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If you are not happy that the house is under your MM's Mom's name, you can try to 8o!^ZOmU<
persuade your MM to add her name on it, so the house will be indirectly owned by you G+yz8@
as well after your marriage. As to the request that you pay off the mortgage for that e?fjX-
house, if you have that much money, you just don't feel comfortable to pay it at once `6F8Kqltr
how about asking your MM to open a joint account in both of you/MM's names and ~ a|Q[tiV]
deposit the money into it? By doing this, you can show your highest sincerity to MM AxQ /
and extend the solid proof that you are not out of money. You can earn the interest s,q!(\{Pv
and when the RMB appreciates to a certain level, you can either sell the house or K%@SS8!oy
close the joint account and exchange the money back to whatever currency at that ]$*_2V3VA$
time. (Sigapore dollar or Hong Kong dollar or USA dollar) 8+b3u05
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Anyway, keep your relationship with your MM, I don't think you should explore too Sk%|-T(d$
much on why her family ask this or ask that, honestly ask yourself, if you love her or *qOCo_=P8
not. And DO keep on your writing, you have the talent.
