Cigar DD, give you my fair and hearty opinion, I like your writing and wish to read more
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of it. Because of this, the least thing for me to see is the broken relationship between y&")7y/uE
you and your MM. One thing I can be sure is that you won't live in poverty for long. ):E4qlB
As long as you have the motivation to improve your financial situation, you will be able ZY-W~p1:G
to achieve your financial goal eventually. rLGh>bw#`3
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The "Rich dad, Poor dad" serial of books are good to read. There is one main idea I x3xBl_t
agree the most "Don't say you can't afford it, ask yourself how you can afford it." hh LEU
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One thing I don't understand and wish you can think it again, why you insist selling the 9]r6V
house your MM purchased? Do you know there are thousands of foreign investors Lj6$?( x}
each year from all of the world especially the USA to invest in China's real estate? Gdq _T*
And the RMB is still in appreciation, the trend will go on for a while. Keep the property &
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for long term investment is not a bad idea. GxL5yeN@(
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If you are not happy that the house is under your MM's Mom's name, you can try to :PuJF`k
persuade your MM to add her name on it, so the house will be indirectly owned by you i=#<0! m
as well after your marriage. As to the request that you pay off the mortgage for that t5G@M&d4Eo
house, if you have that much money, you just don't feel comfortable to pay it at once EtK,C~C}8
how about asking your MM to open a joint account in both of you/MM's names and } :P/eY
deposit the money into it? By doing this, you can show your highest sincerity to MM /!rH DcR
and extend the solid proof that you are not out of money. You can earn the interest H.qp~-n
and when the RMB appreciates to a certain level, you can either sell the house or 0&E{ [~Pv
close the joint account and exchange the money back to whatever currency at that tJy6\~
time. (Sigapore dollar or Hong Kong dollar or USA dollar) ]e@'9`G-'
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Anyway, keep your relationship with your MM, I don't think you should explore too Gt{~u^<
much on why her family ask this or ask that, honestly ask yourself, if you love her or *D! $gfa
not. And DO keep on your writing, you have the talent.
