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I don't agree with your views on this part. The process of life is like the sea: men come and go; tides rise and fall. Don't say to give up while you are in the low spirit. M`i\VG
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Now I realize that any marriage will be always meeting its affair just like in the movie there are cars always crashing into each other.Coz we are human being,not a machine,we have difficulty in controlling our life as it can be.Even a machine needs maintaining constantly. $!yW_HTx
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B%76rEpvW; EbE-}>7OO Not quite sure which part you don't agree upon. What I see from the current
=i*;VFc situation Diver's friend stands may have a rooted cause, and I have the doubt that
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/M4{Wc and said good-bye to each other. It might be their types, it might be that they
XkF%.hWo couldn't get along with the other's family, it might be they did not really love each other
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H>B&|BO_[ married, they did not really put every effort to narrow the difference, or they could not
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YLv'43PL &wCg\j_c I totally agree that one should be patient and should cherish the past and appreciate
YccH+[X; the one who has been devoted himself or herself to you and the family, no one can
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This distinguishes the success and failure of the marriage. Nevertheless, the devotion
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9-DZU,`P correct it in the right way is the key. Love can be said with heart or without heart,
k $J zH$ only your loved one can tell and feel. If one has done his/her best but still gets the
=4PV;>X opposite result, it's the word "type" that really rips into them.