李湘六六同斥”冷暴妈妈” 不打孩子只关卫生间
来源:新华娱乐 作者: 2014年08月20日
8月17日的《妈妈听我说》中有一位“冷暴力”妈妈,她处罚犯错孩子的方式是把孩子关进卫生间。妈妈的这种处罚行为不仅被六六称为“冷暴力”,还得到了场上20位小萌宝的39票的反对,成为《妈妈听我说》上迄今为止的最惨烈的一次灭灯。乐嘉看过儿子“投诉妈妈的视频”后当即情绪崩溃表示想流泪,李湘现场更“怒斥”妈妈“赶紧进神秘屋反省”。
六六:冷暴力对孩子的心灵伤害更大
著名编剧六六在短暂的英国度假之后,本期重新回归了《妈妈听我说》的情感观察席,看到“投诉”冷暴力妈妈的视频后表示,妈妈虽不打孩子,也没有暴力行为,但是她使用了另一种处罚办法,就是 “冷暴力”。试图用恐惧去威慑孩子,这种“冷暴力”对孩子的心灵伤害更大,被打的屈辱性只是暂时的,而“冷暴力”产生的阴影则会伴随孩子的一生,这使得妈妈与孩子的情感修复需要很长时间。
听完六六的话后,“冷暴力妈妈”在现场和六六之间进行了一番争论。妈妈为自己辩解道:“孩子是自己的,虽然将孩子关在洗手间里,但这也只是无奈之举,其实自己的内心同样会感到很难过,通常孩子在卫生间里面哭,自己则在外面跟着一起哭。”虽然妈妈的话感人至深,却仍没有引起台上小萌宝们的同情,最终以《妈妈听我说》历史最高39票被送进“神秘屋”。
李湘:别投票了,赶紧进“神秘屋”反省
做客本期《妈妈听我说》的明星妈妈还有带着萌宝王诗龄上节目的李湘,在听到孩子在大屏幕中向爸爸吐露心声,说“爸爸,我想你回来”时,再也抑制不住接近崩溃的情绪。李湘表示:“我非常喜欢这个孩子,他很可爱,远远没有坏到需要妈妈把他放在洗手间,然后关上门,妈妈太残忍了,他只是一个缺爱的孩子,作为父母你们真的要多给他爱,尤其是爸爸。你知道你有多残忍吗?你把你所有的压力都压在了孩子身上,你应该反省,赶快进去吧,别投票了!”
向来以温和理性形象示人的李湘,竟也在节目现场无法控制自己的情绪,一番激励的言语仿佛骂醒了顽固的妈妈,留下了悔恨的泪水。最终这位“冷暴力妈妈”在神秘屋中接受了现场嘉宾的建议,表示会在今后的生活中多关注孩子,聆听孩子,不会凭自己的臆断去评判孩子的对错。
“冷暴力妈妈”掀网络热议 乐嘉六六皆反对
在节目播出后,关于“冷暴力家长”的话题在网络上掀起了广泛讨论。而作为节目主持人的乐嘉在节目播出的当天就发出微博表示,受到冷暴力的孩子,在心灵深层会被植入“我不好,我不值得被爱”等信念,成年之后遇到挫折,很容易陷入到自暴自弃的泥潭中。又比如,遭受到冷暴力的孩子,因为没有合适的对象来施展攻击,尤其容易将攻击的指向对准自己。成年后,轻则失去活力,沉默寡言,重则抑郁不堪,自杀自残。
乐嘉在节目录制时就回忆起小时候妈妈对付自己的办法。就是妈妈经常会让乐嘉站在门口罚站,然后她就会把门给关上,不让他进家门。本来乐嘉已经忘记了这件事情,这个小男孩又勾起了他尘封已久的痛苦回忆。乐嘉哽咽道:“你知道我每次在门口罚站的时候,我最害怕的事情是所有邻居来来往往看到,我觉得特别没有面子,受到了巨大的屈辱。”节目播出的第二天又补发一条微博,继续反对冷暴力。
六六也在自己的微博里针对此事写到,这期“妈妈听我说”的现场,我听到父母责罚孩子的理由会难过得流泪。父母总以他们的眼光来理解对错或淘气,甚至忘记在发火或惩罚以前问一句孩子:“你为什么这么做?”有多少童心和爱意被惩罚和泪水湮没。我们在纷忙的日子里,来不及感受孩子最简单的愉悦。多抱抱小孩,和他们聊天。
在乐嘉和六六的这两条微博下面,我们看到转发量高达两千余条,网友们纷纷回忆起自己儿时的灰暗记忆,都表示这种阴影在内心挥之不去。
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