引用 下面是引用六六于2005-11-30 08:16发表的: 我好矛盾啊!都矛盾一晚上了。
我其实满后悔的,如果孩子的妈妈在课前就告诉我给点鼓励,送他个100分,我一定就顺水推舟了。可妈妈什么都没说。这个妈妈也很不简单,一个人带两个孩子在新加坡独自生活,父亲在韩国工作养家。她是我见到的把孩子的学习生活打理得最井井有条的母亲,每天陪孩子一起学习,甚至让孩子们教她说汉语。对于她不太明白的地方就做上记号,让我写个清楚的NOTE。我想她没事先告诉我,一是对自己孩子有信心,二也是期望孩子凭自己的实力。
下周上课我到底要不要给他个100分呢?如果他又错的话。大家给个主意啊!
No, I don't agree, I think mark is not important, it is more important how much did he try. The mother should tell the younger one he is as good as his older brother. because he tried as hard as his brother. Using mark as a measure will give kids a preasure to aims at marks only and not actually learning the knowledge.
Also, I notice many kids may be to remenber things, but they may have a strong analytical skill. We should tell the kids what they are strong at and help them to develope their skill. |