I am really happy with the fact that you are not divorced. Frankly speaking, if you want to forgive somebody else, you'd better review yourself too. In that way you could feel better. If you had not left your hubby so long time, any gap won't be there. You could not rule your husband with the same behaviour of yourself. Every individule is different. Some people even have more hormone and it could that mind will lose control. I really don't know what had happened there. But for me I really feel it is such a difficulty to maintain a relationship with a long-term seperation. Whatever decision it is, we really need to be serious of the decision. There is no trad-off. If you decide to stay together, then you really need to have an attitude to start over and forget any unhapyness there. Just my 2 cents and not for offending you. Besides, staying with you son at this age would be most important thing I guess. Sometimes I really feel guilty that I had to leave my daughter for so long time. But again, what I said is not judging you. I just wanna say I totally undestand your feeling, then if it is not a good feeling, why don't we move forward?
[ 此贴被芸芸在11-21-2008 05:26重新编辑 ]
