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既然青春留不住

既然青春留不住

来源:微博  作者：六六  2015年02月02日

1月9日晚顶风去看李宗盛“既然青春留不住”演唱会。

上个月，就有些动心，想请偶得爹与我一起去看。

初次接触李宗盛是因为偶得爹，那时候他在科大读书，男生宿舍里袜子臭和散落书桌的好几付扑克，以及WALKMAN里播放的李宗盛。我每次去找他，安静地坐他身边看他勾机，最后一把输赢已定，一定有一个小伙儿扯嗓子嚎两句“寂寞难耐，噢，寂寞难耐……”然后各自拎着饭盆水瓶，穿着拖鞋，晃悠着走出宿舍楼。

我的青春，在早恋，爹妈的呵斥和假装去图书馆读书，却藏在校园角落里亲吻，爱了，分了，等了，累了中，一点点走过。

16岁那年偶得爹护着我，骑着不熟练的自行车，去工大对面的省体育馆听崔健。没钱买票，便跟票贩子一点一点讨价还价。直到所有的观众都入场，剩下的票五块钱一张卖给我们，然后踏着崔健的歌声一路奔上最远最高的看台。崔健直到今天，在我眼里，都是一个黑黑的小不点儿。

日子在终日奔波苦中，渐渐明亮，我们曾经约定，有钱了踏平世界，看遍演唱会。随着文凭的增高，账户和房子的堆积，感情一点一点褪去，直到有一天劳燕分飞。

我们各自换了伴侣，各自开始新的生活。

家里的相册，几次搬家，都不知所踪。最早期的照片，留在合肥偶得奶奶家里。

青春竟然留白。除了儿子，是我所有过去的总结和感谢。

忽然间，“既然青春留不住”的李宗盛回到上海。

大屏幕上，一行一行写着李宗盛2001年记录的家庭生活文字。他的孩子，一个两个三个，他的女人，我们看得见，和看不见的。

眼泪落下。“已经做了的决定，是不会再更改的。相爱是容易的，相处是困难的。决定是容易的，可是，等待是困难的。我们，都像个孩子似的。”

也许没有照片，没有书信，没有联系，记忆，却永远停留。只要一首歌，一个眼神，一段文字，你就闻得见青春的味道。

数度，李宗盛在唱着老情歌的时候，眼眶湿润，声音哽咽。你可以从他的歌声里，听出每个情人的故事。他还会唱唱说说，分享每首歌背后的爱恨情仇，其中说到周华健与自己的在情爱路上的运气，周华健谈恋爱的时候，唱的是“明天我要嫁给你啦”，他的彩头就不好，跟林忆莲的定情歌是“当爱已成往事”，结果结局一目了然。

数度，我把现场照片拍下来，传给偶得爹，谢谢他，在我的青春里，留下版画。

曾经读过一个故事，说一个女人，如果没有爱人，没有孩子，没有父母，说明她前生修行得很好，不欠任何情债，她可以干干净净无牵无挂去天堂。

我想到林巧稚，想到修女特蕾莎，想到希帕蒂雅。

我没有她们那么完美的前生，我前生欠了许多情债，今生依旧在还，而且，我的境界仍停留在希望我爱过的和正在爱的人，我们要相互亏欠，我们要彼此纠缠，我们下辈子，还藕断丝连。

从16岁第一次站在离舞台最远最高的角落，到今天坐第一排最近距离的欣赏，这就是我青春走过的路。很感慨自己可以亲身感受李大叔的魅力。那些与他同时代的人，有好几个，我还没有准备好，他们已经仓促谢幕——张国荣、梅艳芳和迈克尔杰克逊。

既然青春留不住，就一定要活得坦然，老得优雅，且把岁月谱成篇章，一首一首唱过来。记得曾经的相爱，今天已笑着分飞燕。

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