跑死的马与打滚的驴–《蜗居》观感
来源:万维网【五味斋】 作者:毛衣里的猫 2010年04月12日
《蜗居》里,海平和海藻是亲姐妹,但在很多事情的处理和看法上,是由太多不同的。尽管都是公司里的小人物(至少在陈寺福发现宋思明和海藻的暧昧关系前),在面对工作上,海藻像马,海萍像驴。有意思的是:马和驴都是马科的,有亲戚关系,呵呵。
马有傲气又威风,养马的人不可以随便给马吃草或粗粮;马还需要常常洗澡保持干净;所以马有时还代表一下上流社会身份。比如保时捷和法拉利的车标都是跃起的骏马。在蜗居头几集里,海藻找不到工作也看不上文秘类的工作,嫌低了身份,高扬着头说:“我总不能找这样的工作吧!”。海藻没钱时还是想吃哈根达斯,衣服要买过季减价的时尚名牌。
小贝劝过海藻:不要再不停地跳槽了,为了两个人的理想,踏踏实实工作赚钱。后来,海藻就像驯服的马马了:周末加班,只要老板一句话,就开始整理行李,推掉所有的节目安排;老板要晚上去陪酒,赔笑,饿着肚子吃客户的口水菜,那也是义不容辞的。
在海藻对陈寺福发飙那一集里,旁边说道:“在陈寺福眼里,海藻是属于弹性型员工。。。”什么是弹性型员工呢?就是像马一样,累了,抽一鞭子还会跑,也不叫累;再累了,再抽一鞭子还跑,底线不断弹性回缩,直到你把他油榨干。还记得《飘》里斯佳丽的马怎么死的吧:抽了若干鞭子跑到累死的。海藻要不是后来有宋思明罩着,过上了“上两天班,休息五天”的快乐白领生活,在工作上,就只有两种选择:要么做弹性型员工,要么不断跳槽。
驴平和,比起马来,驴适应性强,可以忍受粗粮与重负。海萍也是一个名牌大学毕业生,曾经是海藻的偶像。海萍也有过浪漫情怀,还在校刊上发表过《一起捕捉有雨的夜》。但海萍毕竟是现实的:为了大房子,租的房子越便宜越好;学化工的,做文案也没有什么;多少集里,海萍打车,坐公共汽车,骑车总是穿着那件白色的短风衣。海平甚至现实得很不可爱:为了一块钱,把老公赶出家门;为了一份礼金斤斤计较,磨叽了好几天。
在对自己有危险的情况下,平时温顺的连小孩子都可以使唤的驴就会发“驴脾气”,不再听人调遣了。据说,驴累了,就不肯走了。如果你抽它一鞭子,它也不会走的。你再抽,驴会坐下不走;再抽,驴就四脚朝天躺下打滚了。这时候,赶驴的人就不再和驴拗了。驴就休息了。过一会,赶驴的给驴一根油条,驴吃了还会走路,这就是“顺毛驴”。
海萍在日企上班,老板三天两头要人加班。海萍找尽了理由拒绝:给海藻做饭,接父母孩子,要进修,连老公住院都用上了。最终老板点名要海萍留下,发生冲突。这时的海萍很有驴的气魄:你要怎样就怎样,我做不到了,我就躺下不干了哈。当然,海萍拒绝是因为自己的“第二职业”因为加班会有赚不到钱的危险,况且教英语比上班赚得多的多,“脑子秀逗了才加班呢”。海萍这驴开始打滚了。
后来,大老板不愠不火,给海萍小鞋穿,逼海萍辞职,还不给年终奖。海萍也倔上了,一定要要回年终奖。还是靠宋思明帮忙,找人写了病假条最终要到了海萍该得的钱。(当然,海平能当上老师,也还是靠宋的:教的好的人很多,没有人肯引荐,多少号人还在怀才不遇中。这是题外话,打住。)海萍也不多要,拿上年终奖,辞职了事。就像驴子,有了油条也就满足了。
海藻是马,海萍是驴。《蜗居》的结局是驴和马都是吃到了想吃的糖。只是海藻是一匹伤痕累累的马:过了一阵子奢侈生活,没了孩子去了美国。海萍这头小驴子住进了房子,开了学校。只是至少在《蜗居》里,是马是驴都还是要有大后台罩着的。海萍诲人不倦的一句:“我们不靠天,不靠地,我们靠自己。”,让没有人靠的都笑了。平头百姓就走一步看一步吧,也许就像小贝那样:有失去,也有得到,最终哭过了还是要向前走路,不管有没有糖。
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